I have a child that has to get picked up from school 2 nights a week due to work.

Around 3 months ago he was having issues having tantrums when they came to pick him up. We talked to him punished him when it happened rewarded him when he was good, and we seemed to be getting somewhere. Yesterday however there was one more tantrum (1st one in 3 months), and now it seems the nursery simply just don't want to collect him any more.

I accept that the behavior is not good, we need to work on it together to make it stop, however by simply saying we wont collect him anymore, it puts me in an impossible situation, i cant quit my job.

What do i do here, do i make a complaint somewhere, or is that going to far.