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    Quote Originally Posted by Zenith View Post
    So update is she came with her parents last night to move all of the things. Pretty much every single thing is gone now so I am glad about that. I brought it up to her mother about not being happy this situation has been prolonged by her and not me, which is when she said "why did you threaten to put her things outside?" I said because she is sleeping with some other guy and I am obviously not happy she is willing to do that whilst she has led me on and all her shit is in the house. Of course the mother backed up for her and said she cleaned the house last week, I just laughed and said yeah that's great.

    Bad thing is she came today for what I was hoping to be the final time I see her for a while to sort out the bills. As soon as they were done, I gave her the opportunity to clear herself of guilt and admit she had lied about loads of issues over the last few weeks. She didn't so I gave some proof and she still didn't so that's up to her and achieved nothing apart from it showed I cannot trust her for shit, who knows she might try and steal whilst she still has access.

    I asked for the keys and she refused until she gets her half of the deposit back, which I suppose is fair but I said as soon as I can give you the money I will and we won't have to see each other in a few weeks but she didn't like that at all. So all in all, I'm going to sadly have to see her again at some point in the next month but I'm hoping she is willing to post her keys through the door and be done with it. I thought she wouldn't be so ****ing awkward, but nothing surprises me from here on.
    A couple of things:

    No point talking to the mother - she's obviously going to take her daughters side. Don't waste your breath in future.

    No point trying to get your ex to admit stuff she's done. All it does is show her that you still give a shit. Even if you do still care, don't let her know that. The best thing you can do is show her that your glad she's gone. The reality is you know she's been a lying cheat so you don't need proof.

    As for the keys and deposits situation, is there anyone you can lend the money from? If so, tell her you'll give her the half of the deposit in exchange for the keys - no keys, no money. The sooner you get this sorted then the sooner you can be shot of her. If you can't get the money then hopefully you can speak to your landlord and get her off the lease, change the locks etc. Failing that tell her that if she enters your property without your permission then she won't get her money at all.

    Chin up young man. Hopefully the situation will get sorted soon. In the meantime the best thing you can do is get on with your life and ignore your ex - the only time you need to speak to her again is to give her half the deposit and get your keys back.

    Edit: one more thing - if there's anything else of hers still there (no matter how small) then dump it in the bin right now. She's had her chance to get her shit. Don't give her any reason or excuse to come round again.
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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    What's stopping her getting another set of keys cut???

    Talk to the landlord first, but get the damned locks changed.

    He might even give you your deposit back, you give her half, then take out another lease of your own

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    Quote Originally Posted by TH63 View Post
    What's stopping her getting another set of keys cut???

    Talk to the landlord first, but get the damned locks changed.

    He might even give you your deposit back, you give her half, then take out another lease of your own
    All I'm going to do is wait until the landlord is back, as soon as he is I will get all of this sorted.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Zenith View Post
    All I'm going to do is wait until the landlord is back, as soon as he is I will get all of this sorted.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Zenith View Post
    So update is she came with her parents last night to move all of the things. Pretty much every single thing is gone now so I am glad about that. I brought it up to her mother about not being happy this situation has been prolonged by her and not me, which is when she said "why did you threaten to put her things outside?" I said because she is sleeping with some other guy and I am obviously not happy she is willing to do that whilst she has led me on and all her shit is in the house. Of course the mother backed up for her and said she cleaned the house last week, I just laughed and said yeah that's great.

    Bad thing is she came today for what I was hoping to be the final time I see her for a while to sort out the bills. As soon as they were done, I gave her the opportunity to clear herself of guilt and admit she had lied about loads of issues over the last few weeks. She didn't so I gave some proof and she still didn't so that's up to her and achieved nothing apart from it showed I cannot trust her for shit, who knows she might try and steal whilst she still has access.

    I asked for the keys and she refused until she gets her half of the deposit back, which I suppose is fair but I said as soon as I can give you the money I will and we won't have to see each other in a few weeks but she didn't like that at all. So all in all, I'm going to sadly have to see her again at some point in the next month but I'm hoping she is willing to post her keys through the door and be done with it. I thought she wouldn't be so ****ing awkward, but nothing surprises me from here on.
    So when are you two getting married then?

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    Got any saucy snaps you would like to share with us ?

    Curious to see this bunny boiler

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocco Siffredi View Post
    Got any saucy snaps you would like to share with us ?

    Curious to see this bunny boiler
    All over that strange place for very needy people facecloth by all accounts

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    Of course you need permission to change the locks

    BUT

    if its a Yale type lock, you can easily change the barrel of the lock ( just keep the old one safe, as you could change it back when you move out )
    less than a 10'er and 15 mins work

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    Quote Originally Posted by blue matt View Post
    if its a Yale type lock, you can easily change the barrel of the lock ( just keep the old one safe, as you could change it back when you move out ) less than a 10'er and 15 mins work
    Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?
    Take it down the tip and put up a nice new wooden one, covered with uPVC.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    This bloody post is like Payton Place, for you on here not old enough to remember, the show used to start with
    "The continuing story of Peyton Place" Why anyone would want to tell their love life story on an internet message board belies belief, but what is more unbelievable, is that all of you on here have replied to him

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    Princess Grace, Peyton Place, trouble in the Suez...

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Igovernor View Post
    This bloody post is like Payton Place, for you on here not old enough to remember, the show used to start with
    "The continuing story of Peyton Place" Why anyone would want to tell their love life story on an internet message board belies belief, but what is more unbelievable, is that all of you on here have replied to him
    The weirdest thing is that you read it.

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    Actually I did start to read it, but as soon as I realized what it was about, I stopped reading

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Igovernor View Post
    Actually I did start to read it, but as soon as I realized what it was about, I stopped reading
    Did you get to the bit about the talking car? It got really good about three quarters of the way in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igovernor View Post
    This bloody post is like Payton Place, for you on here not old enough to remember, the show used to start with
    "The continuing story of Peyton Place" Why anyone would want to tell their love life story on an internet message board belies belief, but what is more unbelievable, is that all of you on here have replied to him
    Maybe it's the anonymity of it all?

    Sometimes it's easier to ask for help anonymously as opposed to the real world.

    Maybe one day you'll be in a shitty situation and won't know who to turn to - that's when the advice of clever feckers like us will come to the fore.

    On a personal level, if it wasn't for people like Mrs R I'd never have become the technological genius (and ladies man) that I am today.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colonel Cærdiffi View Post
    The weirdest thing is that you read it.
    The weirdest thing is that Igovernor is Zenith's slaggy ex.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Lecter View Post
    The weirdest thing is that Igovernor is Zenith's slaggy ex.
    Aw sheeeeit, there's the twist.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?
    Take it down the tip and put up a nice new wooden one, covered with PVCu. ( dont listen to Tony, these oldies, never change with the times, i bet he still refuses to use the metric system )

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Zenith's chequered love life has got nothing on Gizmo's

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?
    On a serious note, i guess its leaking at one of the roof joints ( or the sides )

    slack of the fixings a little, run a bead ( a line ) of sikaflex on each of the joints and then tighten the fixing up

    http://www.screwfix.com/p/sika-sikaf...ar-300ml/7286d

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?
    Keep it in the house.

    Hope this helps.
    Banana sssandwichesss - What a load of bollocksss!

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    Quote Originally Posted by J R Hartley View Post
    Welcome back!

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    Quote Originally Posted by blue matt View Post
    On a serious note, i guess its leaking at one of the roof joints ( or the sides )
    slack of the fixings a little, run a bead ( a line ) of sikaflex on each of the joints and then tighten the fixing up
    http://www.screwfix.com/p/sika-sikaf...ar-300ml/7286d
    No, the leaks are at the bottom of the sides. Where the sides join the base there is a gap - you can see daylight there from the inside. Water accumulates on the base rail and either splashes inside thru the gap when it rains or is blown in by the wind (prolly the former). I bought it via Groupon and got me money back in full, but I'd like to see if I can fix it. I've used sealant on both sides of the base rails and I think a bead of sealant all round the shed between the sides and the base will make it waterproof - just waiting for a dry day. If that doesn't work, I'm going to dismantle it and cut me poor hands to ribbons. In truth, this is a far more heart-wrenching saga, ain't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve R View Post
    Keep it in the house.
    Hope this helps.
    Please don't hijack the thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    No, the leaks are at the bottom of the sides. Where the sides join the base there is a gap - you can see daylight there from the inside. Water accumulates on the base rail and either splashes inside thru the gap when it rains or is blown in by the wind (prolly the former). I bought it via Groupon and got me money back in full, but I'd like to see if I can fix it. I've used sealant on both sides of the base rails and I think a bead of sealant all round the shed between the sides and the base will make it waterproof - just waiting for a dry day. If that doesn't work, I'm going to dismantle it and cut me poor hands to ribbons. In truth, this is a far more heart-wrenching saga, ain't it?
    shouldnt really be a gap, if the gap is too big for sealant, then you might need to go and buy something to act as a cover strip for it, B&Q do 15 - 20 mm strips of aluminium ( which you could stick on with silicone or use some self tappers to screw it on )

    as you got your money back, its a win win, you get to keep your money and spend fooking hours arsing about with it and trying to get it right

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igovernor View Post
    This bloody post is like Payton Place, for you on here not old enough to remember, the show used to start with
    "The continuing story of Peyton Place" Why anyone would want to tell their love life story on an internet message board belies belief, but what is more unbelievable, is that all of you on here have replied to him
    Lessons in posting etiquette from Igovernor.

    You have to love this place

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    Quote Originally Posted by blue matt View Post
    as you got your money back, its a win win, you get to keep your money and spend fooking hours arsing about with it and trying to get it right
    I'm an obstinate bloke who loves somethin' fer nothing, so that's what I'll do. I think I'll use a few more self tapping screws to fix everything more firmly and squirt some sealant around. Sunday looks dry....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    I'm an obstinate bloke who loves somethin' fer nothing, so that's what I'll do. I think I'll use a few more self tapping screws to fix everything more firmly and squirt some sealant around. Sunday looks dry....
    keeps you busy, win, win & win

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    No, the leaks are at the bottom of the sides. Where the sides join the base there is a gap - you can see daylight there from the inside. Water accumulates on the base rail and either splashes inside thru the gap when it rains or is blown in by the wind (prolly the former). I bought it via Groupon and got me money back in full, but I'd like to see if I can fix it. I've used sealant on both sides of the base rails and I think a bead of sealant all round the shed between the sides and the base will make it waterproof - just waiting for a dry day. If that doesn't work, I'm going to dismantle it and cut me poor hands to ribbons. In truth, this is a far more heart-wrenching saga, ain't it?
    Oh dear. Groupon.

    Once and once only I bought something from the total shitfest that is groupon.

    Rattan garden furniture for 200 quid. Seemed like a bargain as I'd seen them for twice that everywhere else.

    Spent all day arsing about trying to put some badly constructed shit together. Half the holes were in the wrong places, god knows how many screws and rivets were missing, no instructions etc. - eventually I managed to use my moderate diy skills to get a table, 4 chairs and a bench assembled as best I could. Finished the final chair, stood it up and discovered that one leg was about three inches shorter than the rest.

    Smashed it to shit, rung the number, had the mother of all rants, they refunded my money and told me I could keep the shitty rattan as a gesture of goodwill. Burnt it on a fire out my back garden - one of the most satisfying experiences of my life.

    Moral of the story - don't buy anything from groupon. It's just shit they can't sell anywhere else. Because it's shit.

    Take a sledgehammer to the shitty shed. You'll feel so much better for doing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igovernor View Post
    This bloody post is like Payton Place, for you on here not old enough to remember, the show used to start with
    "The continuing story of Peyton Place" Why anyone would want to tell their love life story on an internet message board belies belief, but what is more unbelievable, is that all of you on here have replied to him
    The posters on this messageboard are second to none when it comes to helping out someone in need. One day when you're struggling, try it and it'll make you feel a lot better knowing that you are never alone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Lecter View Post
    Oh dear. Groupon.
    Once and once only I bought something from the total shitfest that is groupon.
    Rattan garden furniture for 200 quid. Seemed like a bargain as I'd seen them for twice that everywhere else.
    Spent all day arsing about trying to put some badly constructed shit together. Half the holes were in the wrong places, god knows how many screws and rivets were missing, no instructions etc. - eventually I managed to use my moderate diy skills to get a table, 4 chairs and a bench assembled as best I could. Finished the final chair, stood it up and discovered that one leg was about three inches shorter than the rest.
    You didn't think to call on the technological genius that is Mrs SR in your hour of need...?

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    You didn't think to call on the technological genius that is Mrs SR in your hour of need...?
    Don't tell everyone, they will all want help.
    "One does not establish a dictatorship in order to safeguard a revolution, one makes a revolution in order to establish a dictatorship." -- George Orwell

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    No, the leaks are at the bottom of the sides. Where the sides join the base there is a gap - you can see daylight there from the inside. Water accumulates on the base rail and either splashes inside thru the gap when it rains or is blown in by the wind (prolly the former). I bought it via Groupon and got me money back in full, but I'd like to see if I can fix it. I've used sealant on both sides of the base rails and I think a bead of sealant all round the shed between the sides and the base will make it waterproof - just waiting for a dry day. If that doesn't work, I'm going to dismantle it and cut me poor hands to ribbons. In truth, this is a far more heart-wrenching saga, ain't it?
    I think I see the problem.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    You didn't think to call on the technological genius that is Mrs SR in your hour of need...?
    Only if she fancied a warm by the fire.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Lecter View Post
    Only if she fancied a warm by the fire.
    Problems with the atmospheric sensing device, the oxygen depletion sensor and the precision pilot on your Robinson Willey Firegem Visa 2 Gas Fire?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Problems with the atmospheric sensing device, the oxygen depletion sensor and the precision pilot on your Robinson Willey Firegem Visa 2 Gas Fire?
    Nah.

    The petrol fired shitty rattan bonfire went off like a dream.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R View Post
    Don't tell everyone, they will all want help.
    I'm glad you said that Mrs R. Because I have this question that's always been bugging me.

    Pretend 1% of the population has a disease. You have a test that determines if you have that disease, but it’s only 80% accurate and 20% of the time you get a false positive. Your test comes back positive. How likely is it you have the disease?
    Whatever the mind can conceive and truly believe, the mind can achieve.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Lecter View Post
    Nah.
    The petrol fired shitty rattan bonfire went off like a dream.
    "Finished the final chair, stood it up and discovered that one leg was about three inches shorter than the rest" Haven't we heard enough personal problems on this thread without you going on about your terrible deformity?

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