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    Quote Originally Posted by Taunton Blue Genie View Post
    I sent you a PM a few days ago, Zenith.

    By the way, you might want to ask Mike to delete this thread once the dust settles - as you may not want it as a permanent record on the Internet.
    Quote Originally Posted by City123 View Post
    That's a very good point
    too late, the nsa ( and 497 other agencies have the info now ) just ask any of the tinfoil hat brigade waaaaaaay toooooo late

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    Zenith. You have been too soft and now need to be tough. Time to get her out of your life completely. You will be in a very different place in five years time with someone you are happier with. You wait and see.
    Most of us have been through what you have. It runs deep when you are hurt by someone you love but you will bounce back in time.

    Oh and one other thing. Start supporting a proper team like the mighty Reading FC. It will do wonders for your love life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    Zenith. You have been too soft and now need to be tough. Time to get her out of your life completely. You will be in a very different place in five years time with someone you are happier with. You wait and see.
    Most of us have been through what you have. It runs deep when you are hurt by someone you love but you will bounce back in time.

    Oh and one other thing. Start supporting a proper team like the mighty Reading FC. It will do wonders for your love life.
    Source?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colonel Cærdiffi View Post
    Source?
    HP please

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    Zenith. You have been too soft and now need to be tough. Time to get her out of your life completely. You will be in a very different place in five years time with someone you are happier with. You wait and see.
    Most of us have been through what you have. It runs deep when you are hurt by someone you love but you will bounce back in time.

    Oh and one other thing. Start supporting a proper team like the mighty Reading FC. It will do wonders for your love life.

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    Zenith. You have been too soft and now need to be tough. Time to get her out of your life completely. You will be in a very different place in five years time with someone you are happier with. You wait and see.
    Most of us have been through what you have. It runs deep when you are hurt by someone you love but you will bounce back in time.

    Oh and one other thing. Start supporting a proper team like the mighty Reading FC. It will do wonders for your love life.
    Don't lie to the poor lad

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    How come no one has asked if the bitch contributed to rent/mortgage/rates/bills in general, if she did, she'll be the one changing the locks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R View Post
    Don't lie to the poor lad
    You really are such a biatch

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    You really are such a biatch
    What's a BIATCH ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BLUETIT View Post
    What's a BIATCH ?
    For Serious?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BLUETIT View Post
    What's a BIATCH ?
    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    For Serious?
    https://www.google.co.uk/search?sour...k1.bnmibrRZGrY

    For serious ! Never, ever seen or heard that before

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    Re: How to be royally f*cked over in just 28 days!

    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    You really are such a biatch
    Aww, love you too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearcey3 View Post
    Zenith. You have been too soft and now need to be tough. Time to get her out of your life completely. You will be in a very different place in five years time with someone you are happier with. You wait and see.
    Most of us have been through what you have. It runs deep when you are hurt by someone you love but you will bounce back in time.

    Oh and one other thing. Start supporting a proper team like the mighty Reading FC. It will do wonders for your love life.
    Feck that, get into the rowing. There are many attractive women at the Oxbridge boat race.

    One day in the future, most likely, you will get the opportunity to become friends with this girl or not and you will have to decide if this behaviour can be excused by both of your heads being a mess after a break up. You have every right to remember how she reacted to your friend being in hospital and reject this chance but, with time and having moved onto something better, you may feel that you can be friends again. Just don't rush into that decision and give yourself a proper amount of time before seeing her next.

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    So update is she came with her parents last night to move all of the things. Pretty much every single thing is gone now so I am glad about that. I brought it up to her mother about not being happy this situation has been prolonged by her and not me, which is when she said "why did you threaten to put her things outside?" I said because she is sleeping with some other guy and I am obviously not happy she is willing to do that whilst she has led me on and all her shit is in the house. Of course the mother backed up for her and said she cleaned the house last week, I just laughed and said yeah that's great.

    Bad thing is she came today for what I was hoping to be the final time I see her for a while to sort out the bills. As soon as they were done, I gave her the opportunity to clear herself of guilt and admit she had lied about loads of issues over the last few weeks. She didn't so I gave some proof and she still didn't so that's up to her and achieved nothing apart from it showed I cannot trust her for shit, who knows she might try and steal whilst she still has access.

    I asked for the keys and she refused until she gets her half of the deposit back, which I suppose is fair but I said as soon as I can give you the money I will and we won't have to see each other in a few weeks but she didn't like that at all. So all in all, I'm going to sadly have to see her again at some point in the next month but I'm hoping she is willing to post her keys through the door and be done with it. I thought she wouldn't be so ****ing awkward, but nothing surprises me from here on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zenith View Post
    So update is she came with her parents last night to move all of the things. Pretty much every single thing is gone now so I am glad about that. I brought it up to her mother about not being happy this situation has been prolonged by her and not me, which is when she said "why did you threaten to put her things outside?" I said because she is sleeping with some other guy and I am obviously not happy she is willing to do that whilst she has led me on and all her shit is in the house. Of course the mother backed up for her and said she cleaned the house last week, I just laughed and said yeah that's great.

    Bad thing is she came today for what I was hoping to be the final time I see her for a while to sort out the bills. As soon as they were done, I gave her the opportunity to clear herself of guilt and admit she had lied about loads of issues over the last few weeks. She didn't so I gave some proof and she still didn't so that's up to her and achieved nothing apart from it showed I cannot trust her for shit, who knows she might try and steal whilst she still has access.

    I asked for the keys and she refused until she gets her half of the deposit back, which I suppose is fair but I said as soon as I can give you the money I will and we won't have to see each other in a few weeks but she didn't like that at all. So all in all, I'm going to sadly have to see her again at some point in the next month but I'm hoping she is willing to post her keys through the door and be done with it. I thought she wouldn't be so ****ing awkward, but nothing surprises me from here on.
    A couple of things:

    No point talking to the mother - she's obviously going to take her daughters side. Don't waste your breath in future.

    No point trying to get your ex to admit stuff she's done. All it does is show her that you still give a shit. Even if you do still care, don't let her know that. The best thing you can do is show her that your glad she's gone. The reality is you know she's been a lying cheat so you don't need proof.

    As for the keys and deposits situation, is there anyone you can lend the money from? If so, tell her you'll give her the half of the deposit in exchange for the keys - no keys, no money. The sooner you get this sorted then the sooner you can be shot of her. If you can't get the money then hopefully you can speak to your landlord and get her off the lease, change the locks etc. Failing that tell her that if she enters your property without your permission then she won't get her money at all.

    Chin up young man. Hopefully the situation will get sorted soon. In the meantime the best thing you can do is get on with your life and ignore your ex - the only time you need to speak to her again is to give her half the deposit and get your keys back.

    Edit: one more thing - if there's anything else of hers still there (no matter how small) then dump it in the bin right now. She's had her chance to get her shit. Don't give her any reason or excuse to come round again.
    Last edited by Dr Lecter; 14-09-17 at 09:47. Reason: Hadn't finished ranting

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    Quote Originally Posted by J R Hartley View Post
    Welcome back!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zenith View Post
    So update is she came with her parents last night to move all of the things. Pretty much every single thing is gone now so I am glad about that. I brought it up to her mother about not being happy this situation has been prolonged by her and not me, which is when she said "why did you threaten to put her things outside?" I said because she is sleeping with some other guy and I am obviously not happy she is willing to do that whilst she has led me on and all her shit is in the house. Of course the mother backed up for her and said she cleaned the house last week, I just laughed and said yeah that's great.

    Bad thing is she came today for what I was hoping to be the final time I see her for a while to sort out the bills. As soon as they were done, I gave her the opportunity to clear herself of guilt and admit she had lied about loads of issues over the last few weeks. She didn't so I gave some proof and she still didn't so that's up to her and achieved nothing apart from it showed I cannot trust her for shit, who knows she might try and steal whilst she still has access.

    I asked for the keys and she refused until she gets her half of the deposit back, which I suppose is fair but I said as soon as I can give you the money I will and we won't have to see each other in a few weeks but she didn't like that at all. So all in all, I'm going to sadly have to see her again at some point in the next month but I'm hoping she is willing to post her keys through the door and be done with it. I thought she wouldn't be so ****ing awkward, but nothing surprises me from here on.
    So when are you two getting married then?

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    Got any saucy snaps you would like to share with us ?

    Curious to see this bunny boiler

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocco Siffredi View Post
    Got any saucy snaps you would like to share with us ?

    Curious to see this bunny boiler
    All over that strange place for very needy people facecloth by all accounts

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