Chin up Son. Life is full of twists and turn's. Plenty more good stuff to come, don't worry about that. Onwards. Upwards. Good luck for the future.
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Chin up Son. Life is full of twists and turn's. Plenty more good stuff to come, don't worry about that. Onwards. Upwards. Good luck for the future.
With all due respect, Zenith, the time for asking politely has long since passed..
Believe me, after that I demanded them and she didn't like it and got obviously even more defensive. Just wondering why the **** she is making this last for so much longer than it needed to.Originally Posted by Butterwick Blue
Ok time for some truth young man.
She's doing it because she can. Probably because she's a manipulative bitch.
Text her, give her one final chance to get her shit out of YOUR house. Give her a date and time and tell her that anything she doesn't collect at that point will be donated to the charity shop. Be there when she comes so you can make sure she doesn't take anything that's not hers but don't waste your breath on her. Tell her you have no interest in anything she has to say from now on and ask her to delete your number.
As soon as she's got her stuff, delete her from your life completely - phone, Facebook and anything else. If she texts or rings you, ignore her. Just get on with your life and start looking after number one. Don't waste your time trying to analyse why she did what she did - some people are arseholes and the best thing you can do is just leave her where she is.
It'll hurt for a bit but once she gets out of your head you'll be surprised how quickly you'll forget her. One day you'll look back and realise you had a lucky escape.
Already happening pal, hopefully all will be sorted by Thursday morning and I can come on here with a big smile on my face. I have been stern and can't wait to get rid of her from my life.
I'd add to this: make sure someone is with you when she comes over. If one of your mates is there, she loses all her power. She won't be able to flirt or tug at the heart strings. Keep it business from now on.
You don't need the landlords permission to change the locks, just do it.
I think you'll find you do.
Of course you need permission to change the locks
BUT
if its a Yale type lock, you can easily change the barrel of the lock ( just keep the old one safe, as you could change it back when you move out )
less than a 10'er and 15 mins work
Any tips on how to stop a new metal garden shed leaking?
Take it down the tip and put up a nice new wooden one, covered with uPVC.
Take it down the tip and put up a nice new wooden one, covered with PVCu. ( dont listen to Tony, these oldies, never change with the times, i bet he still refuses to use the metric system )
On a serious note, i guess its leaking at one of the roof joints ( or the sides )
slack of the fixings a little, run a bead ( a line ) of sikaflex on each of the joints and then tighten the fixing up
http://www.screwfix.com/p/sika-sikaf...ar-300ml/7286d
No, the leaks are at the bottom of the sides. Where the sides join the base there is a gap - you can see daylight there from the inside. Water accumulates on the base rail and either splashes inside thru the gap when it rains or is blown in by the wind (prolly the former). I bought it via Groupon and got me money back in full, but I'd like to see if I can fix it. I've used sealant on both sides of the base rails and I think a bead of sealant all round the shed between the sides and the base will make it waterproof - just waiting for a dry day. If that doesn't work, I'm going to dismantle it and cut me poor hands to ribbons. In truth, this is a far more heart-wrenching saga, ain't it?
Keep it in the house.
Hope this helps.
Please don't hijack the thread
Z, you are still looking for sense and answers, probably because you crave them, and/or because you feel that you deserve better than what you are getting.
Understandable - maybe, but all you are getting is nonsense, bollocks , lies and hurt.
The cat is way too far out of the bag. Time to be very firm and very cool headed.
****ing hell zenith you've been taken for a right mug get your shit together get on tinder and start shagging ffs
Not very nice, perhaps it's not what you want to hear, time heals, you will move on, go and treat yourself, new axe, new car or something to get your mind away from it all.
new axe,
I believe that Zenith is a guitar(axe) player !!!!new axe,
I believe that Zenith is a guitar(axe) player !!!!
new axe,I believe that Zenith is a guitar(axe) player !!!!
He also rides a bike, but you never said buy a chopper
What's stopping her getting another set of keys cut???
Talk to the landlord first, but get the damned locks changed.
He might even give you your deposit back, you give her half, then take out another lease of your own
All I'm going to do is wait until the landlord is back, as soon as he is I will get all of this sorted.
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