I have lived (and worked) in England almost all my life.
My partner is English.
Most of my friends are English.
I like where I live.
I like Gareth Southgate.
But.... I want England to lose every game they play.
It's not hatred - just local rivalry and a lifetime of being insulted, ignored or patronised by a noisy minority of England fans.
I have tried watching England matches and wanting them to win, but I just can't do it. Not in my DNA.