Funeral arrangements - help needed

[BLUETIT]

Alright, and since the OP is not himself the feuding party, my friendly advice would be to continue with what he is doing, and maybe even try to be the peacemaker. At the end of the day it's rediculous to allow feuds to overshadow significant family events, and somebody needs to be the adult in the room and bring people to their senses. Speaking for myself, just giving up without trying to find a solution would not be an option for me, but I'm sure the OP has his own views about how best to proceed.

Funerals (like some other family occasions), are bad enough, without putting “an elephant in the room” !!!!

As a 68 year old, my advice sticks, “stay away”

[Wales-Bales]

Funerals (like some other family occasions), are bad enough, without putting “an elephant in the room” !!!!

As a 68 year old, my advice sticks, “stay away”

Where you see despair, I see hope

[BLUETIT]

Where you see despair, I see hope

Where you see hope, I see a fight (after booze)

[Wales-Bales]

Where you see hope, I see a fight (after booze)

Avoid the pub, innit. You only want to pay your respects, not become best mates