I come from a catholic family, as does my wife, it's still very prevelant within my family and extended family although i don't believe in god and refused to get married in a church. I let my wife have her way in getting the kids baptised and all of the other sacraments and a catholic school etc, although if it had been up to me, it wouldn't have happened. I find that having religious debates with family members descends into argument and upset, so we don't do it, i respect their beliefs and i'm pretty sure that they get some form of comfort from them. That's good enough for me.