Call me fussy but I dont like her new hair , it's too short
If she came up to me all hot and bothered in a bar or club I would of course be a gentleman and chat politely to her
But if she suggested a coffee back at her place I would say .......alex ...no !......your hairs too short , you look like a bloke .......now leave me alone
Sometimes you have to be direct in life , especially dealing with minor celebrities, after they have had a shedful of lager