Some really interesting replies on this subject, and thanks to everyone who has contributed.
A point that Jimmy the jock made sticks in my mind. Some of us have probably seen more of our work colleagues than our family over the yrs. I’ve always been an easy going guy, and try to get on with most people, but I like to think I’m a good judge of character. I’ll go out of my way to help others, but if you shit on me, I’ve got a memory like an elephant. Although I don’t know how that saying came about 😁