Cookie, summed his own team up well (taken from the BBC website)
Sunderland manager Chris Coleman said: "It was painful. I can't accept conceding 45 seconds into the second half. We can't make those sorts of mistakes where we are.
"With the sending off, sometimes I've seen them given, sometimes not. But that wasn't why we lost,
"To give them a goal like that, you can't do that, well you can, but we're going to stay where we are. It's bitterly disappointing.
"Soft mentality, simple as that. No toughness. Toughness is not just physical, it's not just about nailing someone.
"Toughness is mental, staying strong, making consistent decisions. It's no coincidence where we are."