I'm sorry. You've driven me to the 'No, I will not debate you' stage. If you really wish to challenge your own way of thinking, then have a good read of this link below. It's me copying and pasting again I'm afraid, but you'll have to excuse me as this details what I'm trying to impart to you far more eloquently than I'm able to. Go on, do yourself a favour and read it, I'm not trying to impose 'cultural marxism' on you I promise. Would be good to hear what you think about the arguments therein.
https://longreads.com/2018/09/18/no-...ot-debate-you/