Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
I was a recreational drug user and all drugs paid for by myself.
Didn’t beg or steal to pay for junk.
Didn’t hide behind a plethora of blame everyonelse excuses for my recreational drug use, alcohol abuse or gambling addictions. Still held down a job and by the skin of my teeth a family but then I take ownership for my problems. Self inflicted. Own them, park them, move onward, can’t keep dwelling on the past you’ll never move forward. My own theory. A better theory than anything I received from the MIND counsellor but that’s another story.
I don’t need apologists like you telling me “it’s not your fault, it’s an illness, were you abused as a child?” No I wasn’t, I enjoyed them and I was selfish.
Anyway, stop doing a Dembe with me and keep it all in one thread you absolute danger.