Quote Originally Posted by Wales-Bales View Post
Alright, and since the OP is not himself the feuding party, my friendly advice would be to continue with what he is doing, and maybe even try to be the peacemaker. At the end of the day it's rediculous to allow feuds to overshadow significant family events, and somebody needs to be the adult in the room and bring people to their senses. Speaking for myself, just giving up without trying to find a solution would not be an option for me, but I'm sure the OP has his own views about how best to proceed.
Funerals (like some other family occasions), are bad enough, without putting “an elephant in the room” !!!!

As a 68 year old, my advice sticks, “stay away”