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Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 13:47
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?

Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.
Do you have a narcissist in your life? understanding why people are like they are makes them much easier to get along with I find, here are a few links to help you get along with yours.

7 Things You Need to Know About Narcissists (http://themindunleashed.org/2014/09/7-things-need-know-co-existing-narcissists.html)
"Narcissists are everywhere, and they can be incredibly draining and challenging to deal with. Here are 7 things you need to know about narcissists, written from my perspective as a social psychologist and also inspired by my personal experiences with narcissists in my daily life."

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Symptoms (http://psychcentral.com/disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder-symptoms/)
Is Facebook Making Us Lonely? (http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/05/is-facebook-making-us-lonely/308930/)
Facebook status updates indicates whether a user is narcissistic or neurotic, research finds (http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/news/facebook-status-updates-indicates-whether-a-user-is-narcissistic-or-neurotic-research-finds-10271942.html)
The Internet 'Narcissism Epidemic' (http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/03/the-internet-narcissism-epidemic/274336/)

This thread is not directed at anyone in particular, if you think it is then maybe that says something about you? http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/smiley.gif

Heathccfc
29-05-15, 13:53
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you? but Gabriel sings "We watch in reverence, as narcissus is turned to a flower".

BlueArmy 86
29-05-15, 13:54
Everyones a narcissist i reckon, but there are levels. An extreme narcissist is a problem to him or herself!

Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 14:03
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(plant)

Heisenberg
29-05-15, 14:03
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.That's where the term 'Narcissist' came from (not the song, obviously). Narcissus was a Greek god who fell in love with his reflection in a pool... and then drowned.

Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 14:05
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.
Do you have a narcissist in your life? understanding why people are like they are makes them much easier to get along with I find, here are a few links to help you get along with yours.Yeah that's the one, was just reading that.

Heathccfc
29-05-15, 14:07
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.
Do you have a narcissist in your life? understanding why people are like they are makes them much easier to get along with I find, here are a few links to help you get along with yours.
7 Things You Need to Know About Narcissists (http://themindunleashed.org/2014/09/7-things-need-know-co-existing-narcissists.html)This is all too much for me to take in http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/Dsmile.gif

Steve R
29-05-15, 14:08
This thread is not directed at anyone in particular, if you think it is then maybe that says something about you? http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/smiley.gif http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif

Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 14:22
Everyones a narcissist i reckon, but there are levels. An extreme narcissist is a problem to him or herself!Yeah you could be right, social media has not helped either, I see some weird things on facebook that often makes me wonder if people have issues, one example, people who share pictures that say 'Share this if you love your kids' wtf is that all about? http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif I don't need to share a picture on facebook to prove I love my kids, it goes without saying, it all feels very unnatural and a bit weird to me.

Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 14:23
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.
Do you have a narcissist in your life? understanding why people are like they are makes them much easier to get along with I find, here are a few links to help you get along with yours.
7 Things You Need to Know About Narcissists (http://themindunleashed.org/2014/09/7-things-need-know-co-existing-narcissists.html)
"Narcissists are everywhere, and they can be incredibly draining and challenging to deal with. Here are 7 things you need to know about narcissists, written from my perspective as a social psychologist and also inspired by my personal experiences with narcissists in my daily life." http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif

Owen Wilsons Nose
29-05-15, 14:34
Narcissism is so rampant these days, selfie stucks ugh ****ing narcissist stick, it affects everyone but it seems like 90% of women these days (young women anyway) are just pure narcissistic in everything they do, men not so much but its still atleast 50% for men. Constantly on facebook/instagram/twitter/snapchat, oh lord, how many ways can you express that you are bored and are feigning an interesting life because if you really were leading a life worth sharing you certainly wont have the time to share it.

gandalf1927
29-05-15, 15:18
-Has a constant need for attention

-Has a grandiose sense of self-importance, exaggerating their abilities and achievements

Surely no one on here http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/sherlock.gif

Cardiff Irish
29-05-15, 16:14
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?Good articles, I'm on the sick at th moment have all these FB friends yet the one who is getting in touch the most is my mate who thinks Fb is a load of bollocks and it's a false illusion of happiness all this selfie bullshit culture.

Vimana.
29-05-15, 16:26
Remember a time when 'we' used to go somewhere - holiday, trip to the coast - whatever.

And 'we' took pictures of the places we visited. As a memento - whatever.

Now 'we' take pictures of ourselves in those landscapes - having such a great / cool / chilled time in those places.

The world has become obsessed with illustrating how much we are all 'living the life'.

Just get back to living it!

When you go to a bigger gig now, very few people are getting carried away with the spirit of the occasion.
All way too busy filming it. FFS .. why?! * - just fecking watch / listen to it while you are there!

* I know why .. busy collecting mandatory 'Living the life' evidence - yet again. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/rolleyes.gif
It fecking makes me boil. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif

Elysium
29-05-15, 16:28
Remember a time when 'we' used to go somewhere - holiday, trip to the coast - whatever.Calm down love. It's not doing you any good.

Vimana.
29-05-15, 16:29
Remember a time when 'we' used to go somewhere - holiday, trip to the coast - whatever.
And 'we' took pictures of the places we visited. As a memento - whatever. Thanks Croesy, you are a pal x

Taunton Blue Genie
29-05-15, 17:05
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.
Do you have a narcissist in your life? understanding why people are like they are makes them much easier to get along with I find, here are a few links to help you get along with yours.
7 Things You Need to Know About Narcissists (http://themindunleashed.org/2014/09/7-things-need-know-co-existing-narcissists.html)
"Narcissists are everywhere, and they can be incredibly draining and challenging to deal with. Here are 7 things you need to know about narcissists, written from my perspective as a social psychologist and also inspired by my personal experiences with narcissists in my daily life."Read up on Hyacinthus while you are at it http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/smiley.gif

Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 17:42
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
Latest studies suggest we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic, I always thought it was just a personality trait that some people have but it is personality disorder that can cause serious issues for some.Indeed, I see people every day trying to convince the world they are happier than everyone else but it's all false, I use fb mainly for my djing so I have about 2000 ravers in my friends list, when the Monday morning depression kicks in my news feed is utter carnage, that's when you see the real people come out.

TH63
29-05-15, 17:56
Has a grandiose sense of self-importance, exaggerating their abilities and achievements
-Has persistent fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
-Believes that he or she is "special" and unique and should only associate with people of the same status
-Has a constant need for attention, affirmation and praise
-Has a strong sense of entitlement and an expectation of special treatment
-Is exploitative of others, taking advantage of them for personal gain
-Lacks empathy for others
-Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of them
-Regularly shows arrogant or haughty behaviors and attitudes"

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Vimana.
29-05-15, 17:57
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Elysium
29-05-15, 18:17
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Mrs Steve R
29-05-15, 18:24
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