Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Charlie wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:06
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
That was in my mind after reading the they don't know that we know they know we know stuff but no. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:11
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by Charlie wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:06
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
We've all said things we regret, we've all made spelling mistakes and we've all been a bit of a dick at times, it's how we deal with the banter that defines our online presence.
I read that more in a Sir Humphrey Appleby way
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:18
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:11
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by Charlie wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:06
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
We've all said things we regret, we've all made spelling mistakes and
we've all been a bit of a dick at times, it's how we deal with the banter that defines our online presence.
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
It is possible to be a casual observer on here, and focus purely on the "serious" side of things i.e football, but if you're going to enter into the lions den of CCMB banter you'd better be able to deal with getting bit, or stay out of the cage. It's as simple as that.
I just had to google him, what are the chances of me watching Yes, Prime Minister? http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:56
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
Why are you looking to prove your own assertion?
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:52
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:56
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
We've all said things we regret, we've all made spelling mistakes and we've all been a bit of a dick at times, it's how we deal with the banter that defines our online presence.
Why is someone who's hobby is to do just that asking the question..
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Vimana. wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:57
Feedy, the thing is we ALL give and receive banter on here, you probably more than most.
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 16:52
When someone is taking the piss, the way I see it you have three choices
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:56
1. Take it and shut up, the result is people will soon realise they won't get a reaction and won't bother next time
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:53
2. Give a bit of good natured banter back
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:49
3. Come out swinging and go totally over the top resulting in more and more "attacks", let's call that the Croesy approach.
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:48
We've all said things we regret, we've all made spelling mistakes and
we've all been a bit of a dick at times, it's how we deal with the banter that defines our online presence.
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Originally Posted by TH63 wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 15:45
It is possible to be a casual observer on here, and focus purely on the "serious" side of things i.e football, but if you're going to enter into the lions den of CCMB banter you'd better be able to deal with getting bit, or stay out of the cage. It's as simple as that.
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Re: I'm done with this place
As an outsider looking in there are 4 posters who are at the root of the problem with this forum
Croesy and Feedback vs Vimana and Cardaffi.
They derail most threads they get involved in with their spats and people who want to post about the football are being driven away from this forum because they are fed up with it, or from a new poster perspective, cant be arsed to sift through their nonsense.
Its a sad sign of the times when **** has overtaken this forum for actual Cardiff City football talk.
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Polo Di Canio wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:28
As an outsider looking in there are 4 posters who are at the root of the problem with this forum
I agree with three quarters of this post
Re: I'm done with this place
Croesy will be loving all this attention lavished upon him.
He thrives on it but what he needs is firm but gentle discouragement.
Mrs Steve R - if you don't like Yes Minister / Prime Minister then I'm
very suprised as it chimes very well with your conspiracy theories of how government works.
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by BlueWales wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:50
Croesy will be loving all this attention lavished upon him.
Does it? I was only a kid when it came out so never really watched it, has it aged well?
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Polo Di Canio wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:28
As an outsider looking in there are 4 posters who are at the root of the problem with this forum
But that's just my opinion.
Re: I'm done with this place
You are right BW, he'll be loving it.
I've been named in this thread a few times, I don't have a problem with that, but in light of it I'm going to say a few things, but to Feedy.
Feedy,
it is disappointing , but familiar, to yet (we've been here before ..) again see you describe what Croesy chooses to attract as 'bullying'.
It is completely disrespectful to the people - young and old - of this country, and this planet who are genuinely oppressed - by genuine bullies, through NO action or fault of their own, and with NO way out.
Nor avenue of respite, and with grave consequences.
We've seen this same discussion so many times, and the same ridiculous comparison made by you and CB. And mainly only you both.
What Croesy does (and will do again) is goad and showboat in way he knows will grab wide attention.
And yes it could be ignored. And ideally should.
But it becomes almost a regular game.
When it ramps up, it can look a bit mob-handed at times, but remember who creates the threads, who entices it and who is usually happy to feed the flames.
When it inevitably gets too much for him, he explodes into self pity.
At that point he has usually gets himself banned. This time he's on a break perhaps.
During his tenure here he is sending totally unsolicited PM's to people (even during matches http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/shrug.gif ) in order to http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/shrug.gif goad them more I imagine,
I have had a fair few, I know others have.
Not the actions of a person who is being bullied.
No doubt you will have an answer for all this and an excuse for everything that you choose to - you always do.
Same as last time. same as it will be next time.
Perhaps, you genuinely don't get it.
Regards the comparison to Micks supposed 'goading' yes he does post a few wind-ups.
They are usually quite funny for a start, and frankly the only three who get frothy about them are you, Croesy and JimmyJimmy. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/smiley.gif
The very, very small club that get apoplectic about 'champagne lefties' I suspect.
You wont see the difference in the two though though, in fact you probably think Mick is the bigger WUM .. naturally ...
There have been a few names mentioned in this thread, interestingly none of those who have subsequently really stuck the boot in, some of it v. close to the bone.
I doubt you spotted that either though.
Feedy,
Well done for wasting most of a working day defending the indefensible and insulting those who are genuinely bullied.
Again, this stuff is ridiculous.
I would not have commented on this thread at all if it hadn't been for the fact that I had been sent more abusive PM's and I since got mentioned again.
Boring, and it will all happen again.
Have a nice evening. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/thumbup.gif
PS @Soi Polo dick Cunnio .. go do one. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/thumbup.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
Vimana
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
You're entitled to your opinion but try not to lecture others on what to think. You've even said yourself he should be ignored so why not have courage in your convictions, practice what you preach and turn the other cheek? Be the bigger man etc etc
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:04
Vimana
From the man who is never wrong http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/thumbup.gif And i bet you have the last post on this http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/Dsmile.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by jeepster wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:11
Vimana
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:04
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
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Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:12
Vimana
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Originally Posted by jeepster wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:11
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:04
You're entitled to your opinion but try not to lecture others on what to think. You've even said yourself he should be ignored so why not have courage in your convictions, practice what you preach and turn the other cheek? Be the bigger man etc etc
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Re: I'm done with this place
One last time for Feedy.
If someone continually chooses to attract an action upon themselves, the outcome of that can not be 'bullying'.
But I have not got all night, and day and night and day to watch you find a million avenues to avoid accepting common sense, so we will agree to disagree.
I've already written way more than I intended.
Apologies everyone .
I pretty much agree with most of the rest of your post. Peppered with hypocrisy though it is..
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Colonel Cærdiffi wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:57
As an outsider looking in there are 4 posters who are at the root of the problem with this forum
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Originally Posted by Polo Di Canio wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:28
Croesy and Feedback vs Vimana and Cardaffi.
And I said give Polo a week!
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:12
Vimana
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Originally Posted by jeepster wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:11
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:04
You're entitled to your opinion but try not to lecture others on what to think. You've even said yourself he should be ignored so why not have courage in your convictions, practice what you preach and turn the other cheek? Be the bigger man etc etc
Sorry to piss on your chips but I'm a woman, we always have the last word. http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/Dsmile.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Polo Di Canio wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 17:28
As an outsider looking in there are 4 posters who are at the root of the problem with this forum
One thing distinguishes Caerdiffi from the above, he makes me laugh, so I tend to ignore the times he gets all arsey
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:16
Vimana
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:12
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
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Originally Posted by jeepster wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:11
You're entitled to your opinion but try not to lecture others on what to think. You've even said yourself he should be ignored so why not have courage in your convictions, practice what you preach and turn the other cheek? Be the bigger man etc etc
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:04
Disco dave may like that but I prefer vinegar.
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:19
Vimana
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Originally Posted by Mrs Steve R wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:16
Just because you don't see it as bullying doesn't mean it's not. It would appear you protest your innocence too much. I've already stated on several occasions that it may well not be bullying and that CB maybe having a laugh at it all, however all I'm saying is that it would be nice for you and others to consider the possibility you may have called it wrong. The fact you won't entertain the possibility says a lot about the arrogance of you and the rest who see him as fair game.
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:12
You're entitled to your opinion but try not to lecture others on what to think. You've even said yourself he should be ignored so why not have courage in your convictions, practice what you preach and turn the other cheek? Be the bigger man etc etc
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Originally Posted by jeepster wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:11
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Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Vimana. wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:15
One last time for Feedy.
Fine, what if that person isn't aware of what they are writing or aren't aware of the attention they are attracting? Can you consider that as a possibility?
Re: I'm done with this place
It's always a possibility.
Lets avoid the word probability and park it http://www.ccmb.co.uk/images/smiley_icons/hehe.gif
Re: I'm done with this place
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Originally Posted by Feedback wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:21
One last time for Feedy.
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Originally Posted by Vimana. wrote on Tue, 10 November 2015 18:15
If someone continually chooses to attract an action upon themselves, the outcome of that can not be 'bullying'.
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