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What ur opinions on this? (Non football)
My mate has been with his partner for 10 years plus. Theyve had some mates for years who they meet up with mostly together but she tends to be the one who instigates it and is more in contact with them then he is. All of a sudden she starts going out with them - round there house, party's going out into town, etc etc and joins a new social group that they all go to. Except it's like he's not invited...he mentioned on a few occasions perhaps I'll come out next week with you but it's like he's been excluded and hasn't seen the friends for a quite a while now. Obviously he has confronted her about it and she insists there's nothing going on, she just wants to enjoy life after working so hard which is fine and he has no issue with her going out either. It's just weird - she never talks about where or who she's going with! That's alarms bells ringing to me but I'm a close mate so I'm bound to be biased....what u all think? Bearing in mind she has been a workaholic for a long time and perhaps it's just she's now enjoying herself?
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And there's our Friday evening sorted :popcorn:
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TH63
And there's our Friday evening sorted :popcorn:
Lol I know - sounds like a real sob story - it's just even I can't get my head around it! She's not the sort to (doesn't seem that way anyway) to go "off" with someone or lie either but I guess anyone can do that! It's just odd and he's messed up over it!
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Ah the old "my mate" thread...,
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She's being shagged and your not even invited to watch?Time to move on mate,she don't want your willy no more
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Hmm well that's kind of what I thought But obviously I haven't said this to him but I got to say it's very odd behaviour. the thing is I don't think it's about her going out and having a good time the main issue is the exclusion part which is just odd. Yeah couples do separate things all the time, I do but if my other half suddenly excluded me completely from friends that we both saw I'd feel abit pissed off!
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SuperBluebirds91
Hmm well that's kind of what I thought But obviously I haven't said this to him but I got to say it's very odd behaviour. the thing is I don't think it's about her going out and having a good time the main issue is the exclusion part which is just odd. Yeah couples do separate things all the time, I do but if my other half suddenly excluded me completely from friends that we both saw I'd feel abit pissed off!
I wouldn't - her friends are a bunch of slags and chavs. I ferking hate spending time with them so would be over the moon.
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Sounds a bit of a wimp, I'd give her a doughnut
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just chill for now. the dup are coming to put laws in plaice about this non cristian stuff. she will be in the jail soon
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kingbillyboy
just chill for now. the dup are coming to put laws in plaice about this non cristian stuff. she will be in the jail soon
how cod you say that
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Packerman
how cod you say that
That's sharp.:hehe:
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jeepster
That's sharp.:hehe:
just sharpened up, up till 4 last night, jd and coke, woke up feeling like shit, ropey day today :hehe:
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Packerman
just sharpened up, up till 4 last night, jd and coke, woke up feeling like shit, ropey day today :hehe:
Go back on it you will feel better before u go to sleep:puke:
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Originally Posted by
SuperBluebirds91
My mate has been with his partner for 10 years plus. Theyve had some mates for years who they meet up with mostly together but she tends to be the one who instigates it and is more in contact with them then he is. All of a sudden she starts going out with them - round there house, party's going out into town, etc etc and joins a new social group that they all go to. Except it's like he's not invited...he mentioned on a few occasions perhaps I'll come out next week with you but it's like he's been excluded and hasn't seen the friends for a quite a while now. Obviously he has confronted her about it and she insists there's nothing going on, she just wants to enjoy life after working so hard which is fine and he has no issue with her going out either. It's just weird - she never talks about where or who she's going with! That's alarms bells ringing to me but I'm a close mate so I'm bound to be biased....what u all think? Bearing in mind she has been a workaholic for a long time and perhaps it's just she's now enjoying herself?
The first thing I would say is don't assume she's doing something bad because she might not be, people act weird for all different reasons, she could be innocently taking classes to learn to cook or something weird as a surprise, you just don't know, maybe their mates say don't bring him?
On the other hand he's only going to tell you one side, he might be a bit of a dick to her, she might be so fed up of waiting for him to take her out she's shagging someone else. :shrug:
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TH63
And there's our Friday evening sorted :popcorn:
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My wife is like this to me too. Initially, I didn't like being excluded, but now I appreciate the space. She goes out with her mates, and I invite the 25 year old primary school teacher from two doors down in for our own form of entertainment.
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The OP's mate needs to get his mott on the Jeremy Kyle Show's lie detector test to determine whether she's being rodgered on the sly.
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Mrs Steve R
.... people act weird for all different reasons, she could be innocently taking classes to learn to cook or something weird as a surprise, you just don't know....
Do many women view learning to cook as 'something weird'?
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I would guess that she is cheating. He can't really win this. If he tells her he doesn't want her going out without him then she will call him controlling and leave him. He could try playing the same game and go out on his own and not explain where he's going. If she doesn't care then she is definitely cheating.
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Cyclops
Do many women view learning to cook as 'something weird'?
Yes, good observation. I blame feminism! Once upon a time women were a whizz in the kitchen. They could knock-up endless goodies from scratch. Nowadays so many feed their families by filling a shopping trolley at Iceland to bung the contents in the microwave. Men should stand firm against this social decay.
I could go on but have a mountain of ironing to contend with.
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Cyclops
Do many women view learning to cook as 'something weird'?
They seem to these days :hehe: don't start me on that again.
Anyway I said "or something weird" pottery classes with added salsa and memory regression.
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Organ Morgan.
Yes, good observation. I blame feminism! ....
Spot on! The woman's a raging feminist! You can only feel for her poor, long suffering, starving partner.....
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Cyclops
Spot on! The woman's a raging feminist! You can only feel for her poor, long suffering, starving partner.....
Fully agree. A GoFundMe page for the downtrodden Steve R is in order.
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Organ Morgan.
Fully agree. A GoFundMe page for the downtrodden Steve R is in order.
A little bird told me he was seen loitering around that food bank on Holton Road in the week. Honestly, she gets herself plastered all over some obscure magazine article and thinks she's above all those normal female things like darning socks and using a mangle.
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Organ Morgan.
Fully agree. A GoFundMe page for the downtrodden Steve R is in order.
He wasn't talking about me, I think it's evil. :hehe:
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Cyclops
A little bird told me he was seen loitering around that food bank on Holton Road in the week. Honestly, she gets herself plastered all over some obscure magazine article and thinks she's above all those normal female things like darning socks and using a mangle.
I didn't get myself plastered anywhere, it was you. :biggrin:
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David Vincent
I would guess that she is cheating. He can't really win this. If he tells her he doesn't want her going out without him then she will call him controlling and leave him. He could try playing the same game and go out on his own and not explain where he's going. If she doesn't care then she is definitely cheating.
In my experience, partners often judge you by their own actions. I girl I was seeing was always "jealous" when I was out, and always accusing me of having an affair. I wasn't, but found out she had been.
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She don't want him filming her Bukkake sessions
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It's time to put a monitoring app on her phone which records all activity and allows discrete access to the camera and microphone.
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Kris
In my experience, partners often judge you by their own actions. I girl I was seeing was always "jealous" when I was out, and always accusing me of having an affair. I wasn't, but found out she had been.
Psychology 101. People are always influenced by what they themseves think and do.
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Wales-Bales
It's time to put a monitoring app on her phone which records all activity and allows discrete access to the camera and microphone.
:yikes: Where the hell has the red card smiley gone? :hehe:
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Mrs Steve R
:yikes: Where the hell has the red card smiley gone? :hehe:
Nothing to hide nothing to fear innit :biggrin:
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Wales-Bales
Nothing to hide nothing to fear innit :biggrin:
Wasn't that called 'Trust' back in the day? :hehe:
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Mrs Steve R
Wasn't that called 'Trust' back in the day? :hehe:
Why should Mrs May be the only one having a bit of fun with our phones, the Snoopers Charter should be for everyone! :biggrin:
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she just wants a bit of cock what is the problem with that?
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kingbillyboy
she just wants a bit of cock what is the problem with that?
Maybe she's swinging the other way, a bit tongue in cheek I know :hehe:
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Wales-Bales
Why should Mrs May be the only one having a bit of fun with our phones, the Snoopers Charter should be for everyone! :biggrin:
I slag her off for it so I wouldn't use it myself would I? :biggrin:
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kingbillyboy
she just wants a bit of cock what is the problem with that?
:hehe:
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Mrs Steve R
I slag her off for it so I wouldn't use it myself would I? :biggrin:
Smart answer, you know Steve uses this message board :hehe:
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Wales-Bales
Smart answer, you know Steve uses this message board :hehe:
http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ip...it_stirrer.gif:hehe: It's my only answer smart or not, don't you need to have a phone yourself to track people anyway?
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kingbillyboy
she just wants a bit of cock what is the problem with that?
Or a lot of cock. Or a lot of cocks.