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Lads I'm struggling tonight
Girlfriend ended our relationship of almost 3 years today and I'm in pieces.
I need the best of CCMB to do what they do best and give me a good old cheering up :thumbup:
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Plenty more fish...............
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I'll ask my work colleague who also moonlights on Adultwork if she will give you a discount
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Unfortunately, the only real (partial) remedy is time. Filling the vacuum with something superficial probably won't do the trick.
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Originally Posted by
Baloo
Still ****ing funny:hehe:
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In time you will appreciate she did you a favour. Back in February 1991 my wife of less than five months left me for another man whom she later married. It knocked me for six. I was a zombie for a few weeks.. In 1996 I met my current lady. We have been together over 21 years and have two sons. I love her to bits.
You will be fine but it will take time. It might take a fair few months and maybe a couple of years but in time it will not be so painful. When you eventually settle down you will look back at this part of your life and shrug your shoulders. You wait and see.
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Originally Posted by
Zenith
Girlfriend ended our relationship of almost 3 years today and I'm in pieces.
I need the best of CCMB to do what they do best and give me a good old cheering up :thumbup:
FAO Mike Moggis - this is precisely the kind of frivolous post we're trying to stamp out on this MB, so I think young Zenith here would benefit from an infraction point.
Thanks in advance.
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Originally Posted by
jamieccfc
Still ****ing funny:hehe:
I've watched this too many times. The bigging up of England is hilarious.
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If you've got any good mates, get together, have a few beers and a laugh; take your mind off it. Don't sit alone with your thoughts digging yourself into a hole.
I don't know you, but if it has hit you really hard and you're having ANY thoughts about harming yourself, please get help. As shit as it may feel at the moment, it will get better. I'll even drive down from Gloucester to take you for a beer if necessary!
Cardiff and District Samaritans:
029 2034 4022 (local call charges apply)
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Originally Posted by
Arfur Europe
FAO Mike Moggis - this is precisely the kind of frivolous post we're trying to stamp out on this MB, so I think young Zenith here would benefit from an infraction point.
Thanks in advance.
This is abusive towards young Zenith. So that's six points for you young Arfur.
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Just think you can go down the City and come home whatever time you want.Keep happy fella worst things can happen.
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Originally Posted by
jeepster
Just think you can go down the City and come home whatever time you want.Keep happy fella worst things can happen.
Yeah he could be a Reading supporter.
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I hope she was a trollop. Because I'm sure there'll be a Warnock round the corner.
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Sorry to hear that Z.
Time is the only cure. But make sure you don't get trapped in cognitive loops for the next few months. Make sure you break routine do new things. Make sure you exercise and get healthy. Don't let your ego tumble. Try and find a new hope to aim for.
Good luck man!
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Originally Posted by
Pearcey3
This is abusive towards young Zenith. So that's six points for you young Arfur.
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You're a good poster Zenith. I have no answers for you mate but there's always light at the end of the tunnel mate.
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Originally Posted by
thehumblegringo
You're a good poster Zenith. I have no answers for you mate but there's always light at the end of the tunnel mate.
Yes he is a good poster and will be fine. It just takes time.
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Originally Posted by
Taunton Blue Genie
Unfortunately, the only real (partial) remedy is time. Filling the vacuum with something superficial probably won't do the trick.
:biggrin:
Well surely that's what Dr. Fun prescribed - I can almost hear Zenith cheering up from here.
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Don't drink too much and if you need to talk then you can continue to update us and I'm sure you have friends ready to listen too.
Hard to say much more than what has already been said (time and things get better) but you might find yourself learning a lot from this, even if just feels shit for ages.
Chick flicks seem to suggest watching a film but i usually prefer losing to a mate on FIFA.
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It's hard mate, trust me while it seems like the end of the world right now, it's not.
Spend some time with your mates, keep busy and just focus on you.
Sooner or later you'll meet the women you're meant to be with, and this one will become a memory.
We've all been there, I had a couple of failed relationships that hurt me back in the day, but have been married now for 27 years.
Right that's the sensible advice out the way.
Shagging her best friend, or even better, her sister would be an excellent response.
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My mate sent pics of his ex to her dad! Evil ****er
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Also, whether it's a positive or not, you are still way behind John cleese. Write a famous sit-com and try to catch up.
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It happened to me many years ago the only thing between you and happiness right now is time.
My mate told me that at the time but i could n`t see it. Honestly nearly 30 years on I just see it as part of my life.
Took me a year or so to get my confidence back you`ll get there mate.
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Originally Posted by
TH63
It's hard mate, trust me while it seems like the end of the world right now, it's not.
Spend some time with your mates, keep busy and just focus on you.
Sooner or later you'll meet the women you're meant to be with, and this one will become a memory.
We've all been there, I had a couple of failed relationships that hurt me back in the day, but have been married now for 27 years.
Right that's the sensible advice out the way.
Shagging her best friend, or even better, her sister would be an excellent response.
Shagging her brother would send a bigger message
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Originally Posted by
thehumblegringo
My mate sent pics of his ex to her dad! Evil ****er
I think we're going to need to see copies of those.....
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He wants cheering up ffs not everyonelses heartbreak stories :shrug:
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The world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make is taking a stroll down his local high street.
As he passes by the record shop, a sign catches his eye. "Just Released: New LP - Wasps of the World & the sounds that they make - available now!"
Unable to resist the temptation, the man goes into the shop. "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make. I'd very much like to listen to the new LP you have advertised in the window."
"Certainly, Sir," says the young man behind the counter. "If you'd like to step into the booth and put on the headphones, I'll put the LP on for you."
The world expert on European wasps goes into the booth and puts on the earphones.
Ten minutes later, he comes out of the booth and announces, "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make and yet I recognised none of those."
"I'm sorry sir," says the young assistant. "If you'd care to step into the booth, I can let you have another 10 minutes."
The world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make steps back into the booth and replaces the headphones.
Ten minutes later, he comes out of the booth shaking his head. "I don't understand it," he says, "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make, and yet I still can't recognise any of those!"
"I'm terribly sorry, sir" says the young man, "perhaps if you'd like to step into the booth again, you could have 5 more minutes."
Sighing, the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make steps back into the booth.
Five minutes later, he comes out again, clearly agitated. "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make and yet I have recognised none of the wasps on this LP."
"I really am terribly sorry," says the young assistant. But
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"I've just realised I was playing you the bee side."
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I would say writing down how you feel or representing in an art form (like rap and other forms of poetry are my personal choices) would help a lot.
Also maybe call a friend would help a lot.
If you ever need to rant or anything, feel free to hit me up
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Originally Posted by
Glos Blue
If you've got any good mates, get together, have a few beers and a laugh; take your mind off it. Don't sit alone with your thoughts digging yourself into a hole.
I don't know you, but if it has hit you really hard and you're having ANY thoughts about harming yourself, please get help. As shit as it may feel at the moment, it will get better. I'll even drive down from Gloucester to take you for a beer if necessary!
Cardiff and District Samaritans:
029 2034 4022 (local call charges apply)
****ing hell, that's going to cheer him right up that is. Bet you're a right laugh at parties.
My advice.
Just ask Sludge if you can borrow one of his rotters for an hour or two.
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Originally Posted by
BlueArmy 86
The world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make is taking a stroll down his local high street.
As he passes by the record shop, a sign catches his eye. "Just Released: New LP - Wasps of the World & the sounds that they make - available now!"
Unable to resist the temptation, the man goes into the shop. "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make. I'd very much like to listen to the new LP you have advertised in the window."
"Certainly, Sir," says the young man behind the counter. "If you'd like to step into the booth and put on the headphones, I'll put the LP on for you."
The world expert on European wasps goes into the booth and puts on the earphones.
Ten minutes later, he comes out of the booth and announces, "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make and yet I recognised none of those."
"I'm sorry sir," says the young assistant. "If you'd care to step into the booth, I can let you have another 10 minutes."
The world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make steps back into the booth and replaces the headphones.
Ten minutes later, he comes out of the booth shaking his head. "I don't understand it," he says, "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make, and yet I still can't recognise any of those!"
"I'm terribly sorry, sir" says the young man, "perhaps if you'd like to step into the booth again, you could have 5 more minutes."
Sighing, the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make steps back into the booth.
Five minutes later, he comes out again, clearly agitated. "I am the world expert on European wasps and the sounds that they make and yet I have recognised none of the wasps on this LP."
"I really am terribly sorry," says the young assistant. But
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"I've just realised I was playing you the bee side."
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Originally Posted by
Zenith
Girlfriend ended our relationship of almost 3 years today and I'm in pieces.
I need the best of CCMB to do what they do best and give me a good old cheering up :thumbup:
You must be feline terrible...
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Originally Posted by
Zenith
Girlfriend ended our relationship of almost 3 years today and I'm in pieces.
I need the best of CCMB to do what they do best and give me a good old cheering up :thumbup:
I know it's a cliche but everything happens for a reason. If she really is the one then she'll come back and it'll work out. If she's not then you'll move on and in time look back and see why it didn't work out.
We've all been there and it feels really shit but in time you'll get over it, meet someone else and experience the rampant thrill of incessant shagging that only a new relationship can bring.
In the meantime, keep busy, lean on your friends, look at all the gorgeous birds out there and no matter how tempted you are, don't go crying to the old one begging her to take you back.
You'll be fine young man.
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A man is queuing at the five items or less checkout. The girl in front of him turns around and looks at his basket. He has a four pack of Heineken and an Indian meal for one. She smiles at him. He looks in her basket and sees a small bottle of wine and a Chinese meal for one. He says to her "You're single aren't you?" She gives a girly giggle and says "yes, how did you know?" The man replies "cause you're an ugly ****".
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Originally Posted by
Dr Lecter
I know it's a cliche but everything happens for a reason. If she really is the one then she'll come back and it'll work out. If she's not then you'll move on and in time look back and see why it didn't work out.
We've all been there and it feels really shit but in time you'll get over it, meet someone else and experience the rampant thrill of incessant shagging that only a new relationship can bring.
In the meantime, keep busy, lean on your friends, look at all the gorgeous birds out there and no matter how tempted you are, don't go crying to the old one begging her to take you back.
You'll be fine young man.
Like children dying of starvation? Or the the holocaust? Fatalism is rather a silly concept adopted for those who need false comfort.
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Exercise , get the endorphins flowing . Keep busy and organise your weekends . The abyss will get smaller , good luck , been there it's a bitch but you will survive .
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Originally Posted by
Phill Stants brother
****ing hell, that's going to cheer him right up that is. Bet you're a right laugh at parties.
My advice.
Just ask Sludge if you can borrow one of his rotters for an hour or two.
Having recently lost a very good friend to suicide, following the breakup of his relationship and not seeking any help; you may be right, I'm probably not a right laugh at parties.
I now know when someone is reaching out for help without directly asking for it and if I can, I will help them.
But hey, we all have our crosses to bear...
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Originally Posted by
BlueArmy 86
A man is queuing at the five items or less checkout. The girl in front of him turns around and looks at his basket. He has a four pack of Heineken and an Indian meal for one. She smiles at him. He looks in her basket and sees a small bottle of wine and a Chinese meal for one. He says to her "You're single aren't you?" She gives a girly giggle and says "yes, how did you know?" The man replies "cause you're an ugly ****".
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