O/T BIT OF A LONG SHOT, AM DESPERATELY IN NEED OF SOME ADVICE

[Citizen's Nephew]

Some good advice here but you won't be able to help your wife, who you patently love to bits, if you are unable to function yourself.

I would suggest seeing a doctor about yourself first about your own mental health challenges about the problems you are facing. It may be in working through these issues with your doctor that you can work on some kind of intervention plan for your wife as well when they see what effect it is having on you.

Good luck. It took a lot of strength to bare your feelings on this.

Yes, this is very excellent and important advice. You must see your GP and you must insist on getting a social worker for yourself too.

[goats]

Yes, this is very excellent and important advice. You must see your GP and you must insist on getting a social worker for yourself too.

This.....all the way