O/T BIT OF A LONG SHOT, AM DESPERATELY IN NEED OF SOME ADVICE

[Elwood Blues]

Please contact these good people:

https://www.samaritans.org/wales/branches/cardiff/

I agree that is an excellent idea. I have never used them but they must have heard this sort of story before and shouls know where you can get help

[Armitage Shanks]

It is likely she needs reassessment from the mental health team.
Has she a CPN? She also must have a consultant, if so speak to their secretary to make an appointment.
Also if she is getting more confused, then she may have a delirium possibility due to a urine infection.

But in the 1st instance she needs a review, especially if she is or not on any anti psychotics such as risperidone or halopeladol to name but 2.

[Mad as a fish]

Thanks for getting back to me mate, She just refuses to see anyone at all, so no Consultant no nothing Im afraid

[cyril evans awaydays]

Thanks for getting back to me mate, She just refuses to see anyone at all, so no Consultant no nothing Im afraid

Some good advice here but you won't be able to help your wife, who you patently love to bits, if you are unable to function yourself.

I would suggest seeing a doctor about yourself first about your own mental health challenges about the problems you are facing. It may be in working through these issues with your doctor that you can work on some kind of intervention plan for your wife as well when they see what effect it is having on you.

Good luck. It took a lot of strength to bare your feelings on this.

[Baloo]

Some good advice here but you won't be able to help your wife, who you patently love to bits, if you are unable to function yourself.

I would suggest seeing a doctor about yourself first about your own mental health challenges about the problems you are facing. It may be in working through these issues with your doctor that you can work on some kind of intervention plan for your wife as well when they see what effect it is having on you.

Good luck. It took a lot of strength to bare your feelings on this.

This seems like excellent advice to me.

[chris lee]

Sorry to hear this mate, the advice already provided seems a good start and hope you work your way through it.

On a side note, when we are allowed back in the stadium, let me know if you would ever like to go to a game, I can pick you up and it might be nice to get out the house for a bit and watch some live football

[Rock_Flock_of_Five]

Sorry to hear this mate, the advice already provided seems a good start and hope you work your way through it.

On a side note, when we are allowed back in the stadium, let me know if you would ever like to go to a game, I can pick you up and it might be nice to get out the house for a bit and watch some live football

That's a lovely gesture! There are still plenty of good people in this world.

[Mad as a fish]

Sorry to hear this mate, the advice already provided seems a good start and hope you work your way through it.

On a side note, when we are allowed back in the stadium, let me know if you would ever like to go to a game, I can pick you up and it might be nice to get out the house for a bit and watch some live football

Chris, What a lovely offer, Wife and I were Season ticket holders for 10 years until My hip ops. I would love to take you up on your offer sometime when things get better. Thanks again my friend.

[Citizen's Nephew]

Some good advice here but you won't be able to help your wife, who you patently love to bits, if you are unable to function yourself.

I would suggest seeing a doctor about yourself first about your own mental health challenges about the problems you are facing. It may be in working through these issues with your doctor that you can work on some kind of intervention plan for your wife as well when they see what effect it is having on you.

Good luck. It took a lot of strength to bare your feelings on this.

Yes, this is very excellent and important advice. You must see your GP and you must insist on getting a social worker for yourself too.

[goats]

Yes, this is very excellent and important advice. You must see your GP and you must insist on getting a social worker for yourself too.

This.....all the way