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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Citizen's Nephew View Post
    I think you're hijacking a thread about homophobia.
    No, the thread has moved on to the rights and wrongs of reporting it, the consequences thereof, and whether there are other scenarios that make people feel unwelcome in the ground.

    I asked what peoples thoughts on it were.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by JamesWales View Post

    I think this is the kind of double standards I mean. I know a few English people who live in Cardiff and embrace the cultural aspects the city offers but avoid Cardiff City like the plague, largely because of attitudes like this.
    I often bring a few of my girls football team up, they all know " what goes on at football, stays at football ", all the girls are English, I have explained its just football banter, I know one of them takes it to heart and it does " sour " her day at the football ( her mum has told me ) but thats just football, its improved a lot over the years, but its still edgy at times and I wouldn't want it too sterile

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by blue matt View Post
    I often bring a few of my girls football team up, they all know " what goes on at football, stays at football ", all the girls are English, I have explained its just football banter, I know one of them takes it to heart and it does " sour " her day at the football ( her mum has told me ) but thats just football, its improved a lot over the years, but its still edgy at times and I wouldn't want it too sterile
    I agree, I don't want it to be sterile. I think these things can be complex and nuanced issues, and I suppose that's my point.

    I know that some people are intimidated by certain chants and behaviour that are discriminatory and are against the ground regulations but some people have defended, whilst objecting (rightly) to the homophobic slur.

    I don't know what the answer is really. Probably that we call it out more, understand things more and maybe dont label everything as a hate crime when it may not be. It may just be arsehole behaviour.

    We are all inconsistent and thats part of what makes us human I guess.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    My mates stood up to a group of young lads who were chanting (at the Pompey match) at a young girl who had the audacity to tell them to get behind the team. They’re handy mind so if it did go tits up they could have handled it, but it still takes courage to stand up to people. Long may it continue though

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by UNDERHILL1927 View Post
    My mates stood up to a group of young lads who were chanting (at the Pompey match) at a young girl who had the audacity to tell them to get behind the team. They’re handy mind so if it did go tits up they could have handled it, but it still takes courage to stand up to people. Long may it continue though
    Did your mates ring WOL straight after though - and make a point of stating their sexuality.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Whisperer View Post
    Did your mates ring WOL straight after though - and make a point of stating their sexuality.
    No but they’d have been well within their rights if they had done. The days of “lads” down the football thinking they’re above the law are gone (and I used to be one of them)

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by UNDERHILL1927 View Post
    No but they’d have been well within their rights if they had done. The days of “lads” down the football thinking they’re above the law are gone (and I used to be one of them)
    I got news for you Underhill I'm afraid it haven't....and we seen an example of a couple of lads on the touch line at Chelsea v Spurs today.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Citizen's Nephew View Post
    This is a strange response from someone who's avatar is promoting a charity, and I quote, from the Register of Charities:

    WILLOWS CENTRE TROEDYRHIW

    The Willows Centre Troedyrhiw exists to support social, educational and recreational activites for all community members in Troedyrhiw and surrounding areas. The Centre aims to promote and actively encourage equality for all community members in order to fulfil their potential as empowered individuals and as members of groups.
    Zzzzz - a boring anorak

  9. #9

    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Whisperer View Post
    I got news for you Underhill I'm afraid it haven't....and we seen an example of a couple of lads on the touch line at Chelsea v Spurs today.
    If grown ups want to meet up and batter the **** out of each other in the name of football then let them carry on. Homophobic, sexist or racist abuse should always be called out and stamped out

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Citizen's Nephew View Post
    This is a strange response from someone who's avatar is promoting a charity, and I quote, from the Register of Charities:

    WILLOWS CENTRE TROEDYRHIW

    The Willows Centre Troedyrhiw exists to support social, educational and recreational activites for all community members in Troedyrhiw and surrounding areas. The Centre aims to promote and actively encourage equality for all community members in order to fulfil their potential as empowered individuals and as members of groups.
    I wish someone would empower our strikers.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by UNDERHILL1927 View Post
    If grown ups want to meet up and batter the **** out of each other in the name of football then let them carry on. Homophobic, sexist or racist abuse should always be called out and stamped out
    I agree but where does it stop are you gonna start calling out lads that are coked up or even vaping in the ground because if that starts happening there will be a lot more empty seats than there were on Saturday.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Whisperer View Post
    I agree but where does it stop are you gonna start calling out lads that are coked up or even vaping in the ground because if that starts happening there will be a lot more empty seats than there were on Saturday.
    I’d imagine it stops with calling out homophobic, racist or sexist abuse. How you’ve got to “but won’t somebody think of the potential consequences for the cokeheads and vapers” from this case is pretty mental

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by delmbox View Post
    I’d imagine it stops with calling out homophobic, racist or sexist abuse. How you’ve got to “but won’t somebody think of the potential consequences for the cokeheads and vapers” from this case is pretty mental
    Although I think it's fair to ask 'where does it end', this did make me laugh.

    Won't someone think of the cokeheads and vapers!?

  14. #14

    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Whisperer View Post
    I agree but where does it stop are you gonna start calling out lads that are coked up or even vaping in the ground because if that starts happening there will be a lot more empty seats than there were on Saturday.
    I think you'll find the opposite would be true.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    To even mention Coke heads and vapers in the context is ridiculous

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by UNDERHILL1927 View Post
    To even mention Coke heads and vapers in the context is ridiculous
    Not really - it’s all illegal in the eyes of the moral ethics committee.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by az city View Post
    Please keep posting. I, for one, value your input.

    The problem is, as always, a vocal minority with unfathomable views make people with a variety of reasonable and alternative opinions turn away from debate. Effectively, it's a version of message board Gresham's Law.
    Anyone who disagrees with you has "Unfathomable views" but your views are reasonable? Lol
    You once stated on here that you are FOR open borders. I.E. No borders on the planet what so ever. Very reasonable view that is...

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Lither_1927 View Post
    Anyone who disagrees with you has "Unfathomable views" but your views are reasonable? Lol
    You once stated on here that you are FOR open borders. I.E. No borders on the planet what so ever. Very reasonable view that is...
    There's a rumour running around that you're supposedly a christian? How would your god feel about your predilection towards discriminating among the planet's peoples with borders. There is only once race on the planet - the human race.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by delmbox View Post
    I’d imagine it stops with calling out homophobic, racist or sexist abuse. How you’ve got to “but won’t somebody think of the potential consequences for the cokeheads and vapers” from this case is pretty mental
    You sound like a brainwashed citizen of cultural marxism. Sometimes the middle class can be so painful to watch.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Homosexuals have never created institutions that have endeavoured to exploit and bury other cultures.

    The rainbow flag represents pride in defiance against bigotry and hate.

    The union jack flag represents pride in violent, military dominance.

    Comparing the two is pretty twisted.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by Divine Wright View Post
    Homosexuals have never created institutions that have endeavoured to exploit and bury other cultures.

    The rainbow flag represents pride in defiance against bigotry and hate.

    The union jack flag represents pride in violent, military dominance.

    Comparing the two is pretty twisted.
    Easy to see why that particular kind of discriminatory behaviour is tolerated by some if thats what you think.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by JamesWales View Post
    Easy to see why that particular kind of discriminatory behaviour is tolerated by some if thats what you think.
    Is is literally a flag made from the flags of countries England conquered and colonised. And we're not even represented on it.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by NYCBlue View Post
    Is is literally a flag made from the flags of countries England conquered and colonised. And we're not even represented on it.
    even though we helped conquer the scot , no effing gratitude

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by JamesWales View Post
    Easy to see why that particular kind of discriminatory behaviour is tolerated by some if thats what you think.
    Is it? He is correct.

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    Re: Cadiff city fan threatened with assault after challenging homophobic abuse

    Quote Originally Posted by az city View Post
    Is it? He is correct.
    Your inability to see the world from a different perspective is quite striking.

    The UK's history is very similar to most other western countries. That doesn't make abusing people because of their nationality okay, especially when you are in a thread that is (rightly) condemning someone using a gay slur (against someone who isn't gay) and then condoning mass xenophobic chanting.

    You are either consistent or not on this really.

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