Originally Posted by
Tuerto
I think that some people react in the way you describe because they feel that they have to. There does seem to be a lack of emotional intelligence when awful things like this happen, most people aren't like it, but it isn't really worth articulating that you don't really feel anything apart from sympathy for the victims family, and maybe a moment of reflection.
I was shocked when i heard the news, because it was shocking, but it didn't upset me because i have never built a relationship with Sala, i don't know him, we've never shared anything. Maybe there are a number of reasons why people feel that they need to express themselves in such an emotive manner, maybe it's to do with other things that have happened in their life-i don't really know-What is slightly disturbing is the anger aimed towards those who question the reasoning of those who decide to make public their feelings. Some people were on here constantly relaying how they felt during the tragic events, i don't quite understand that behaviour. Does tragedy give people a common bond, especially those who are isolated or who may be struggling? I don't know, It's all very sad on so many levels.