fair enough
When i was first invited out by my neighbour ( and best mate ) as we sat down in the indian, it was said that anything i hear about op's shouldnt be repeated, which was fair enough, as other people joined the nights out ( or bike rides ) it was said that they can treat me as one of them, too be honest they did, i often couldnt understand what they were talking about as they love to use abbreviations, i would occasionally get annoyed with it, psu was one incident, i knew psu as a PC's power supplyafter about the 5th time of hearing psu i snapped and said " wtf is psu " , it was a joke at my expense for a while, they would add letters to a chat to wind me up
only once was i put in a strange position, a big time coke dealer was also the boyfriend of someone who worked with my wife, ikept my word and didnt mention it to my wife