You can apologise for asking .....did your mother pull through in the end ? ....when she was in hospital for heart failure and advanced dementia .....which you knew
If you don't think that's unacceptable or you are trying to deny you were not fishing and are pretending it was a concerned question ....of course yeah right then to be honest you are a cancerous cnut
So make your mind up
You can clear the decks or carry on
Decent enough bloke or serpent
Pm me and that will be that