Like someone who has made a decision that impacts the rest of his/ her family, man is naturally in rebellion against his creator. For an unborn or aborted child this is only a general answer not a specific one and in the light of time (the dimension of time alone) it can't fully make sense from that perspective alone. So if people don't believe in eternity then they will struggle to understand any answer to this. A disease can rob us of decades of life here on Earth, but our problem is far bigger than that, my Mum's friend is almost 105, yet she like us all will one day die, then where we she, where will I, where will you spend eternity?
God HAS produced a rescue act (or a cure which is a permanent & comprehensive solution) which can impact every individual, born or otherwise. That is explained in this short
CLIP along with our ultimate problem.
Ignore it, watch it, respond to it as you will. But never say nobody cared enough to tell you.
God bless you