Woke is a stupid word and you have rightly exposed the weakness on the "anti-woke" side. But there is an equal weakness on the "woke" side that puts out identities above all over characteristicds, divides us along those lines and uses very shaky science to explain events on those characteristics. It's turned into a huge industry of people who have zero interest in seeing the injustices they purport to oppose actually reducing. What annoys me most is that none of it works. We made far more progress on the years before.
I hate "wokeness", whatever definition we use. I think it's extremely divisive. My favourite explanation of it remains this short parody which is well worth a watch
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ev37...JhY2lzdA%3D%3D