For a bit of salvation, we could have bought (with her brother and sister) er indoors mums house for 30k quite a few years ago, we passed it by and it went back to the council, ironically it has since been bought by whoever moved in!!!, we will be visiting her family on the weekend and will pass the house she was born in and lived in until she came to the diff, I'll take a tin of paint and give them a bit of Banksy art
Sally Army would be my preferred organisation to pass anything on.