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    Re: Ben Stokes...

    Quote Originally Posted by delmbox View Post
    Why do I need to compare it to anything?
    How do you define brave?

  2. #2

    Re: Ben Stokes...

    Quote Originally Posted by willo1927 View Post
    How do you define brave?
    I think bravery's too complicated a thing to quantify simplistically with "firemen and soldiers are the bravest because they do things they might die doing"

    It's all relative to the situation.

    Who's braver -the person who's not scared of doing something or the person who's absolutely terrified of doing it but does it anyway?

    A fireman might feel ok about running into a burning building but be too scared to tell his friends that he's depressed.

    A 15 year old boy coming out to his family and friends not knowing if they'll accept him or shun him? Brave as f**k. Is it the same kind of bravery as a soldier running into a gunfight to grab his injured mate? Of course not.

    There isn't a sliding scale of bravery, you don't have to try and simplify everything into simple black and white answers.

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    Re: Ben Stokes...

    Quote Originally Posted by delmbox View Post
    I think bravery's too complicated a thing to quantify simplistically with "firemen and soldiers are the bravest because they do things they might die doing"

    It's all relative to the situation.

    Who's braver -the person who's not scared of doing something or the person who's absolutely terrified of doing it but does it anyway?

    A fireman might feel ok about running into a burning building but be too scared to tell his friends that he's depressed.

    A 15 year old boy coming out to his family and friends not knowing if they'll accept him or shun him? Brave as f**k. Is it the same kind of bravery as a soldier running into a gunfight to grab his injured mate? Of course not.

    There isn't a sliding scale of bravery, you don't have to try and simplify everything into simple black and white answers.
    I love this explanation and totally agree. The term bravery has always been fluid for these very reasons.

  4. #4

    Re: Ben Stokes...

    Quote Originally Posted by delmbox View Post
    I think bravery's too complicated a thing to quantify simplistically with "firemen and soldiers are the bravest because they do things they might die doing"

    It's all relative to the situation.

    Who's braver -the person who's not scared of doing something or the person who's absolutely terrified of doing it but does it anyway?

    A fireman might feel ok about running into a burning building but be too scared to tell his friends that he's depressed.

    A 15 year old boy coming out to his family and friends not knowing if they'll accept him or shun him? Brave as f**k. Is it the same kind of bravery as a soldier running into a gunfight to grab his injured mate? Of course not.

    There isn't a sliding scale of bravery, you don't have to try and simplify everything into simple black and white answers.
    Well played

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