2023 - does it have to be personal?

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

What part of his post was the apology?

He can blame everyonelse as much as he likes there was only 1 person on that thread who got so personal and abusive that Mike had to delete some of his posts.

Ditto

[Citizen's Nephew]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Today I read with utter disgust the thread about mental health among the homeless. Enough is enough. That was shameful. On all sides. Christ knows I'm no saint but as the world in general descends into polarised views can't this message board take a stand for the better and be more tolerant in 2023? Honestly, I don't care if you disagree with me but let's keep it on an even keel. I hate that life views immediately get attributed to right/left, red/blue, tory/labour. Life is so much more nuanced than that as the thread I refer to showed. I do think that thread got out of hand entirely though. I have strong views like the next man but try to temper them these days and consider a little. I'm not great at it, and at 44 it's still very much a work in progress. But wouldn't it be great if threads were simply deleted the moment name calling starts? Aren't we all better than that?

Hmmm....too much hand-wringing for my liking. Now don't get me wrong, I luvs a group hug as much as the next totally straight but curious next man. Reads a little too much like a school lecture and the last time that happened in my life didn't end well.

They were just tickling each other yesterday. Thought you liked a bit of old-school wrestling?

....anyway....f*ck the Tories.

[blue matt]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

l and abusive that Mike had to delete some of his posts.

that was me, and I was going to message you abut it, but I went out for the evening and forgot

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

that was me, and I was going to message you abut it, but I went out for the evening and forgot

I over stepped the line , some of my posts got deleted . I can accept that .

The problem is this thread is a really positive one and it's being poked at again .

So I would hope you are going to play with a straight bat .

I am available to discuss anything via PM .

[Citizen's Nephew]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

I'm calling this one early....*group hug*

[North Cardiff Blue]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Not a bad idea that, a cooling off period.

If all sludges bans for each offence were grouped together he would be banned for the next six months

[Taunton Blue Genie]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

I used to think I was argumentative until I discovered this message board.

[splott parker]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

I'm calling this one early....*group hug*

‘Group hug?’ Hmmm, can I go for late 70s/early 80s Blondie, with me hugging Debbie? If so, much appreciated, you’re a good egg

[Jordi Culé]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Being called a cuunt in my local is a term of affection really.

[Jordi Culé]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

‘Group hug?’ Hmmm, can I go for late 70s/early 80s Blondie, with me hugging Debbie? If so, much appreciated, you’re a good egg

Great choice SP.

70s Debbie Harry... hmmmm.

[Nobody's Rep]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Great choice SP.

70s Debbie Harry... hmmmm.

I used to have a poster of DH on my wall, one of those athena size things.

Anyway I put fluorescent stars on her nipples as they were showing through a skimpy negligee type thing so in the night they would show up in the dark

Not sure why I have decided to share that but it seemed like the right thing to do 🤔 you are welcome

[RichardM]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Of course. If their opinion differs to yours or that which is prevailing, then they're wrong.

That's not what he said.

[Michael Morris]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

that was me, and I was going to message you abut it, but I went out for the evening and forgot

I deleted a bunch as well. If it kicks off again like that then some cooling off time will be introduced

[Jordi Culé]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

I used to have a poster of DH on my wall, one of those athena size things.

Anyway I put fluorescent stars on her nipples as they were showing through a skimpy negligee type thing so in the night they would show up in the dark

Not sure why I have decided to share that but it seemed like the right thing to do 🤔 you are welcome

I'm grateful for your thoughts.

[Citizen's Nephew]

Re: 2023 - does it have to be personal?

Great choice SP.

70s Debbie Harry... hmmmm.

Blondie are playing Cardiff Castle June 16 2023.