What decade is it best to grow up in?

[WJ99mobile]

Not sure id like to be a kid growing up now with everything around social media but there’s more opportunities now than in the 70s

Happy with the 90s/2000s personally

[bobh]

Re: What decade is it best to grow up in?

Most people will nominate the years they grew up in.
I'm happy with the 60s/70s.
There didn't seem to be a shortage of opportunities for me.

[J R Hartley]

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Yeah I agree with Bob but 90s for me.

One thing I swear I wouldn’t / won’t do is moan to my kids that things were “better in my day”.

See people moaning on social media about todays youngsters filming and documenting everything - football, gigs, nightclubs.etc so fecking what.

We’ve had our time, let them have theirs.

[the other bob wilson]

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I grew up in the sixties which wasn’t bad and the nineties and noughties didn’t seem bad in terms of being in your early teens

[Stanmore Bluebird]

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All decades to grow up in during peace time would be fine in the modern civilised era.

[Taunton Blue Genie]

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Yeah I agree with Bob but 90s for me.

One thing I swear I wouldn’t / won’t do is moan to my kids that things were “better in my day”.

See people moaning on social media about todays youngsters filming and documenting everything - football, gigs, nightclubs.etc so fecking what.

We’ve had our time, let them have theirs.

If you find yourself saying the same disparaging things to your children that you were told by your parents perhaps it's time to take stock.
I remember my father saying that this country is going to the dogs fifty years ago.....

[Stanmore Bluebird]

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If you find yourself saying the same disparaging things to your children that you were told by your parents perhaps it's time to take stock.
I remember my father saying that this country is going to the dogs fifty years ago.....

Bet you still enjoyed growing up at that time!

[Taunton Blue Genie]

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Bet you still enjoyed growing up at that time!

Partly. My father was a violent drunk.

[Rjk]

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I enjoyed my childhood (80s and 90s), but I think my kids have a better one in so many ways.

Toys-
Incomparible, they have so many toys and games that would have blown my mind at the same age. A while back I found one of my old toys - I'm sure many of you had one. You filled it with water and pressed a rubber button which made a jet of water push some rings around in the water to try to get them onto a little pole.
It was unbelievably shit.
My kids played with it for about 2 minutes before reaching the correct conclusion that it is completely crap, whereas in my youth I probably played with this thing for hours because there wasn't anything else to do.
Similarly I had one of those electronic games that you held up to your eyes like a pair of binoculars - you wouldn't get away with making a game with gameplay so frustrating and repetitive these days as there are just so many other choices everywhere . Whereas in my childhood I remember being so bored that I ate an entire page of A4 lined paper just to have something to do.

TV-
When I grew up there was about 2 hours of kids tv per weekday from 3-5 and some more on saturday mornings.
that was to cater for all ages, so the first 30 minutes was for very young children - I'd probably still watch it as a much older child because there was no other choice.
Yes there were some classic shows, but there are still some shows today with the same quality, and you can watch them whenever you like 24 hours a day

Food-
My parents weren't (and still aren't) brilliant chefs by any stretch of the imagination, but even in the 80s the food in this country was much more limited than these days - I dread to think the decades prior to that.
Traditional british food is not great let's be honest. There's a reason that you can find chinese, thai or indian restaurants in many countries around the world, but there is no great demand to go for a "British" anywhere.
Probably the meal most often provided to me by my parents was fairly bland beef mince, with boiled potatoes and peas.
My kids eat curries, thai food, mexican, chinese, italian etc at home and eating out the food is so much better these days.

Places to go-
they've grown out of them now, but softplay centres are bloody brilliant for kids, the closest thing we had was the random ball pit in allied carpets on newport road

School-
My impression from what I've observed from my kids schooling is that the kids as a whole seem more engaged with learning, better behaved, and far more aware of social issues etc

[Mario Miethig]

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Grew up in the 70s/80s. Much better for kids now. Much more things to do.
Rainy Sundays, when nobody went outside to play were shocking as a kid looking back. Only kids program on was Sesame Street, followed by church programs, then followed by the Test Card till mid afternoon. Pub was shut on a Sunday afternoon and my Dad would come home and play his records, which I hated at the time. Much better these days.

[Vindec]

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Easy. The 1960's. Great music, Cardiff was a venue toured by most of the big bands at cheap prices; the supposed birth of the permissive society etc. The so called baby boomer generation had access to reasonably cheap houses, well paid white collar jobs were aplenty even for those with a mediocre grammar school education as only 2% of the school population qualified for a place in University; those who qualified were actually paid to go to University coupled with countless other advantages that later generations didn't have. It's a no brainer.

[Rjk]

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Grew up in the 70s/80s. Much better for kids now. Much more things to do.
Rainy Sundays, when nobody went outside to play were shocking as a kid looking back. Only kids program on was Sesame Street, followed by church programs, then followed by the Test Card till mid afternoon. Pub was shut on a Sunday afternoon and my Dad would come home and play his records, which I hated at the time. Much better these days.

all the shops were shut, and didn't they even padlock the swings in the park to stop people from playing on them on sundays

[Vindec]

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all the shops were shut, and didn't they even padlock the swings in the park to stop people from playing on them on sundays

True. But it forced kids to play things like football - far healthier than the current Playstation/social media generation where kids spend hours glued to their screens shut in their bedrooms with hardly any exercise.

[Rjk]

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True. But it forced kids to play things like football - far healthier than the current Playstation/social media generation where kids spend hours glued to their screens shut in their bedrooms with hardly any exercise.

Locking up the swings in the playground forced kids to play outside how exactly?
I'm not sure you've thought that through.

p.s. my kids are all mad on football and are outside just as much as I was at the same age.

there ARE more cars around these days so playing on the street isn't as easy

[Vindec]

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Locking up the swings in the playground forced kids to play outside how exactly?
I'm not sure you've thought that through.


p.s. my kids are all mad on football and are outside just as much as I was at the same age.

there ARE more cars around these days so playing on the street isn't as easy

Because kids had to use their initiative and find other things to do. When I was growing up places like Heath Park, Pontcanna and countless other outside locations were populated massively by football teams on a Saturday afternoon. Now there are hardly any teams as kids prefer to stay in their rooms playing computer games and such like.

I can only speak from personal experience but at a young age I was out of the house from 10am until at least 5pm. Now kids can't go anywhere without parental supervision. That's not a criticism by the way but a reflection of current society.