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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Under the law they are homeless they are just not in permanent housing
Youngsters who develop mental health problems through drug use usually do so because they have existing problems , which leads to drug abuse , which makes things worse
The people who are homeless on the street face incredible obstacles . Those that visit food backs are no more or less deserving , it's just a different kind of need .
If you don't wish to give to the homeless for whatever reason that's entirely up to you but plenty of people do .
There are a lot of genuine previously hard-working people who end up on the streets, through a divorce or drastic sharp change of circumstances, there but for the grace of God go us all!
Ex-soldiers always get to me, how they can end up like that is tragic!
I mostly give some change or food from Greggs or somewhere if I'm near one, I'm not really sure if it's the best thing to do, but it feels better than seeing them freezing and looking starving.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
Its not 1980 mate dope is no longer the gateway drug, people are skipping to synthetic and hard drugs at a very young age. Sadly.
You're probably right, even worse, it's such a slippery slope!
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
Jordi Culé
Linda Thorne , housing chair said a week ago there were ......7 .....rough sleepers on average in Cardiff
That's on public record
I have no idea what the point of your link is other than to show there were 17 on the 22 of September
Any drop at this time of year is because the council provides money to get the homeless off the streets as they don't want people stepping over them
It's at least 50 a night , the council are always massaging the figures
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
No you are not
That's probably the problem
Spending lots of money on Christmas:
Bad
Spending lots of money on CCFC:
Not bad
I get it now :thumbup:
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
North Cardiff Blue
There are a lot of genuine previously hard-working people who end up on the streets, through a divorce or drastic sharp change of circumstances, there but for the grace of God go us all!
Ex-soldiers always get to me, how they can end up like that is tragic!
I mostly give some change or food from Greggs or somewhere if I'm near one, I'm not really sure if it's the best thing to do, but it feels better than seeing them freezing and looking starving.
Do whatever you can
I just think people who refuse to help in any way then try to weasel their way out of it are tight fisted
Soldiers are like nurses ....we clap and cheer them when we need them but then let them struggle
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
Canton Kev
Spending lots of money on Christmas:
Bad
Spending lots of money on CCFC:
Not bad
I get it now :thumbup:
No you don't
Spending thousands of pounds at Xmas on daft presents ......silly
Going down the football and as you pass a charity bucket for whatever charity is there and chucking in a tenner ........Nice one
This could be a good discussion on the homeless but you got involved and it's going south
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
You sound like a tory
I work hard , My wife words hard etc etc
You have been sucked into the tory trap
Divide and rule
Do you think YOU work harder than nurses , cleaners , road sweepers ?
You possibly think you do as you are more able to afford your lifestyle but this I work hard plea is plain daft
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Im sure He feels he works harder that the druggies outside the supermarket
Im amazed by this post, and im not sure if its serious or not, I might be getting wooshed
Both myself and my wife work hard , in April this year she started up her own business, she is doing the same job but working for herself
( as does my oldest daughter who is at Uni, she has to buy her own alcohol and pay for her entertainment, to do that she has 3 part time jobs )
Now we both pay out taxes ( which in turn pays for NHS, benefits and the help people get ) if no-one worked and paid taxes, where does all the money come from ? ? the money tree ? ? ?
Are you serious that we shouldn't be able to go on holidays ? ?? or should feel guilty about it ? ? ?
Im with JRH here, I give no money to the beggars on the street ( who normally spend it on drugs or drink ) if I see youngsters, I might buy a bar of chocolate for them, but thats it
as a side note ( and ive mentioned it before ) I help out at a food bank, also at a charity that refurbs bikes and scooters and the money is used to helped the homeless equip flats they move into, buy a bed etc etc ) I only collect the bikes in my van and occasionally spot them on Facebook market place and go and pick them up, its nothing much, but its good for my Karma
2 weeks ago, I dropped off 200 " selection boxes " ( only the £1.09 type, nothing too extravagant ) to the food bank I help out at, my idea was this week when someone collects a bag of food for 4, they get 4 selection boxes to have a little festive joy
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
North Cardiff Blue
Ex-soldiers always get to me, how they can end up like that is tragic!
My biggest issue is these folks, most suffer from PTSD and have been cast aside by society, its shocking, Ive mentioned my garage down in Tidworth on here before, its still being paid for and still occasionally used ( according to the housing officer )
how we let these poor soldiers fall through the gaps is terrible
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
You got hundred bucks in your pocket
It's Xmas
The kids are at home with her indoors, roof over their heads , safe
Down the city a homeless charity you know is good because I told you about it say for 75 quid they can feed and clothe 2 people over Xmas
Do you take the plunge ?
It's not giving giving all your money away is it ?
A foodbank more local to myself will be getting about £30 worth of food same as they do every other year. The days of me giving that amount in change every month to chancers under the guise of being homeless to spend on crack / heroin are long gone. Deal with it.
if I am feeling especially festive and jolly and I am behind an elderly person in the queue at the corner shop asking to top up their gas by £20 I might offer to pay for it. Might. Not promising.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
blue matt
Im sure He feels he works harder that the druggies outside the supermarket
Im amazed by this post, and im not sure if its serious or not, I might be getting wooshed
Both myself and my wife work hard , in April this year she started up her own business, she is doing the same job but working for herself
( as does my oldest daughter who is at Uni, she has to buy her own alcohol and pay for her entertainment, to do that she has 3 part time jobs )
Now we both pay out taxes ( which in turn pays for NHS, benefits and the help people get ) if no-one worked and paid taxes, where does all the money come from ? ? the money tree ? ? ?
Are you serious that we shouldn't be able to go on holidays ? ?? or should feel guilty about it ? ? ?
Im with JRH here, I give no money to the beggars on the street ( who normally spend it on drugs or drink ) if I see youngsters, I might buy a bar of chocolate for them, but thats it
as a side note ( and ive mentioned it before ) I help out at a food bank, also at a charity that refurbs bikes and scooters and the money is used to helped the homeless equip flats they move into, buy a bed etc etc ) I only collect the bikes in my van and occasionally spot them on Facebook market place and go and pick them up, its nothing much, but its good for my Karma
2 weeks ago, I dropped off 200 " selection boxes " ( only the £1.09 type, nothing too extravagant ) to the food bank I help out at, my idea was this week when someone collects a bag of food for 4, they get 4 selection boxes to have a little festive joy
Feck me you are a moderator
Do you seriously think you work any harder than say dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital ?
Feck me who are you to say the money you give to the homeless goes on drugs and drink
Jesus christ no wonder the homeless charities struggle to get money at this time of year with you walking the other way
Fecking joke
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
blue matt
Im sure He feels he works harder that the druggies outside the supermarket
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Do you seriously think you work any harder than say dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital ?
I didnt say that though
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
A foodbank more local to myself will be getting about £30 worth of food same as they do every other year. The days of me giving that amount in change every month to chancers under the guise of being homeless to spend on crack / heroin are long gone. Deal with it.
You know that all the homeless up your way are sky high ?
OK then you keep dreaming skylark
Loads and loads of reasons why people become homeless ......coming to Cardiff to escape cnuts like you in Merthyr being one of them
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
blue matt
I didnt say that though
Piss off , you are a fecking clown
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Feck me you are a moderator
Do you seriously think you work any harder than say dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital ?
Feck me who are you to say the money you give to the homeless goes on drugs and drink
Jesus christ no wonder the homeless charities struggle to get money at this time of year with you walking the other way
Fecking joke
im going to answer this
I dont think I worker harder than dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital , but I do know I work hard, with the money I work hard for, I shouldn't be made to feel guilty if I go on holibobs
I see the homeless and the drug misuse, its not invisible
I walk the other way to the food bank, but im happy with that
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
blue matt
My biggest issue is these folks, most suffer from PTSD and have been cast aside by society, its shocking, Ive mentioned my garage down in Tidworth on here before, its still being paid for and still occasionally used ( according to the housing officer )
how we let these poor soldiers fall through the gaps is terrible
I helped one about 20 years ago. Ex squaddie who had been homeless. I was throwing away an old sofa, fridge and TV and the charity who come to our work said theyd take them off me, help this guy get back on his feet. I knew the guy. Same age as me. Never really liked him tbh but help him get back on his feet.
Fast forward 20 years he was found guilty last week of raping one of his 18 year old daughters friends. No doubt the Sludges of this world will defend him and blame the system but I wish I never helped the kent back on his feet.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/l...n-help-2036096
Shame as he had done a lot for charity but what Ive heard he did that night of the rape was despicable and to make the poor girl testify in court, absolutely sickening.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
blue matt
im going to answer this
I dont think I worker harder than dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital , but I do know I work hard, with the money I work hard for, I shouldn't be made to feel guilty if I go on holibobs
I see the homeless and the drug misuse, its not invisible
I walk the other way to the food bank, but im happy with that
Listen you gimp
You shouldn't feel guilty for going on holiday or buying presents for your family
But the point I am trying to make to the feckwit brigade on here , led by Lord trumpet of Merthyr is .....instead of spending 100 quid this Xmas on chocolates for the wife or 300 quid on a family night out
Spent half of that .....you are still OK with the bank manager ......and give a few quid to the homeless !
It's as simple as that . But we get you wobbleheads coming out with all these excuses ......
Here is the scenario .....a bloke in his thirties is homeless in Cardiff...he served in iraq .....developed ptsd .....he drinks to forget .....by sending some money to one of the Cardiff Street charities they could try and get him off the street ......by giving him ten quid for cider you stop him hassling your daughters later on in the afternoon .....not the ideal solution but there you go
But instead of that sod the homeless they are all druggies ff sake
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
I helped one about 20 years ago. Ex squaddie who had been homeless. I was throwing away an old sofa, fridge and TV and the charity who come to our work said theyd take them off me, help this guy get back on his feet. I knew the guy. Same age as me. Never really liked him tbh but help him get back on his feet.
Fast forward 20 years he was found guilty last week of raping one of his 18 year old daughters friends. No doubt the Sludges of this world will defend him and blame the system but I wish I never helped the kent back on his feet.
Oh **** off you ****
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
This could be a good discussion on the homeless but you got involved and it's going south
Pot meet kettle. I got involved after the name calling started and you and JR got arguing :shrug:
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Feck me you are a moderator
Do you seriously think you work any harder than say dai Jones the cleaner who works nights at the hospital ?
Feck me who are you to say the money you give to the homeless goes on drugs and drink
Jesus christ no wonder the homeless charities struggle to get money at this time of year with you walking the other way
Fecking joke
Whats someones occuptation got to do with anything?
Theres workers and shirkers in every occupation. If you ever had a job I have no doubt which category you would fall into.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Oh **** off you ****
And so the name calling starts.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
Give it a rest you sap
This thread is about the homeless not your one way trip to self realisation
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
[QUOTE=J R Hartley;5374505]And so the name calling
This was a thread about the homeless
Now it's about scroungers and rapists
You tit
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
I think someone needs a time out on the naughty step.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
[QUOTE=SLUDGE FACTORY;5374507]
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
And so the name calling
This was a thread about the homeless
Now it's about scroungers and rapists
You tit
Ah bless. Did someone derail your thread like you do to others? Deal with it.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
Go and make a flask of tea, get yourself a blanket and feck off down to Cardiff and do something useful with yourself you lazy oaf.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
Chicken and the egg though. A lot of these people have mental issues due to their drug problems.
The aggresive begging going on in Merthyr this last 12-18 months is not pretty and they are not homeless either, they are being housed in several hotels and B&Bs around the town.
I no longer give them any spare change, id rather give to a foodbank. Help people who are struggling whilst still trying to give life a go.
Do agree .
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
Linda Thorne , housing chair said a week ago there were ......7 .....rough sleepers on average in Cardiff
That's on public record
I have no idea what the point of your link is other than to show there were 17 on the 22 of September
Any drop at this time of year is because the council provides money to get the homeless off the streets as they don't want people stepping over them
It's at least 50 a night , the council are always massaging the figures
The point of the link is perhaps people like you and Linda shouldn't just shout out numbers that is on the top of their head.
Someone on here may know different (?) but Cardiff have a rough sleepers team out nightly engaging with rough sleepers and doing the numbers.
Interesting you don't question homelessness charities so much? I wonder how much their CEOs' and directors are paid in comparison to local authority homelessness staff?
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
J R Hartley
Its not 1980 mate dope is no longer the gateway drug, people are skipping to synthetic and hard drugs at a very young age. Sadly.
I read this about an hour or so ago and it made me think of about my cousin who's a year or two younger than me.
He's been a Heroin addict since he was kicked out of school in he 80s
My old man just called me up to tell me that my cousin died of an overdose this morning....really weird timing.
His parents tried everything with him to help even raising his twins who were born addicted.
I'm sad for my cousin who was essentially a nice lad who fell in with a bad crowd very young.
I'm absolutely gutted for my uncle who gave so much and my other cousins his Brothers.
I wish there was a way to rid the earth of such poison.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
SLUDGE FACTORY
No you don't
Spending thousands of pounds at Xmas on daft presents ......silly
Going down the football and as you pass a charity bucket for whatever charity is there and chucking in a tenner ........Nice one
This could be a good discussion on the homeless but you got involved and it's going south
I'd say you did a great job of sending this one south. Battling about 15 different posters saying the same thing over and over, this is probably what Tuerto meant the other day when saying it's what ruins the board. Everyone else is wrong and you're right.
I'm not sure why you mentioned my name in reply to someone else earlier. As far as I'm aware up until that point I'd replied decently on here.
I'm not gonna repeat myself, you already know you don't work, you've said it yourself as you look after your mum, me repeating myself adds to ruining the board : thumbup:
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
dembethewarrior
I'd say you did a great job of sending this one south. Battling about 15 different posters saying the same thing over and over, this is probably what Tuerto meant the other day when saying it's what ruins the board. Everyone else is wrong and you're right.
I'm not sure why you mentioned my name in reply to someone else earlier. As far as I'm aware up until that point I'd replied decently on here.
I'm not gonna repeat myself, you already know you don't work, you've said it yourself as you look after your mum, me repeating myself adds to ruining the board : thumbup:
I've got a mate who does that with free money, free board and lodge, he hated work, he absolutely loves life as a carer and hasn't got a care in the World. He's a nice bloke but he has always been lazy bustard.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
Jordi Culé
The point of the link is perhaps people like you and Linda shouldn't just shout out numbers that is on the top of their head.
Someone on here may know different (?) but Cardiff have a rough sleepers team out nightly engaging with rough sleepers and doing the numbers.
Interesting you don't question homelessness charities so much? I wonder how much their CEOs' and directors are paid in comparison to local authority homelessness staff?
Yes, that's true. There's a site that lists a lot of useful information on the Cardiff & Vale University Health Board Support For The Homeless page here.
It's interesting you raise the point about CEOs. It's something I have a real problem with many charities and third sector social enterprises tbh. I'm not going to get into that on here but I worked on some projects with Crisis in London and I've had a lot of direct contact and experience with one of the Social Housing organisations in Grangetown. There's way too much of a private corporate structure and feel to their management practices that makes me feel uncomfortable especially when they're dependent on volunteers and low paid workers.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
North Cardiff Blue
I've got a mate who does that with free money, free board and lodge, he hated work, he absolutely loves life as a carer and hasn't got a care in the World. He's a nice bloke but he has always been lazy bustard.
Terrible excuse not to work in my opinion. People that have to look after family aren't anything special,.it is something we should do, and with the other time you have spare get a part time job and don't spend it on your own leisure, like millions of others have to do, families up and down the country battle poverty working dead end minimum wage jobs and still have epder family members to look after whilst holding together a family. Then there are the ones that are "ful time carers" don't do a jot else apart from spending their spare time on hobbies. Can work won't work.
Tis a shame.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
Wash DC Blue
I read this about an hour or so ago and it made me think of about my cousin who's a year or two younger than me.
He's been a Heroin addict since he was kicked out of school in he 80s
My old man just called me up to tell me that my cousin died of an overdose this morning....really weird timing.
His parents tried everything with him to help even raising his twins who were born addicted.
I'm sad for my cousin who was essentially a nice lad who fell in with a bad crowd very young.
I'm absolutely gutted for my uncle who gave so much and my other cousins his Brothers.
I wish there was a way to rid the earth of such poison.
Sorry to hear that Wash.
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Originally Posted by
dembethewarrior
Terrible excuse not to work in my opinion. People that have to look after family aren't anything special,.it is something we should do, and with the other time you have spare get a part time job and don't spend it on your own leisure, like millions of others have to do, families up and down the country battle poverty working dead end minimum wage jobs and still have epder family members to look after whilst holding together a family. Then there are the ones that are "ful time carers" don't do a jot else apart from spending their spare time on hobbies. Can work won't work.
Tis a shame.
This is such a huge generalisation and pretty offensive tbh. I'm not going to bother with this thread as it's already turned into a sh*t show so I'm out.
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
North Cardiff Blue
I've got a mate who does that with free money, free board and lodge, he hated work, he absolutely loves life as a carer and hasn't got a care in the World. He's a nice bloke but he has always been lazy bustard.
Calling bolllocks on this as soon as I read that you've got a mate.
You think being a full time carer is for lazy baastards?
Fair play, you're a deluded cuunt.
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Originally Posted by
Citizen's Nephew
This is such a huge generalisation and pretty offensive tbh. I'm not going to bother with this thread as it's already turned into a sh*t show so I'm out.
A smart man who followed the thread would get it :thumbup:
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
dembethewarrior
Terrible excuse not to work in my opinion. People that have to look after family aren't anything special,.it is something we should do, and with the other time you have spare get a part time job and don't spend it on your own leisure, like millions of others have to do, families up and down the country battle poverty working dead end minimum wage jobs and still have epder family members to look after whilst holding together a family. Then there are the ones that are "ful time carers" don't do a jot else apart from spending their spare time on hobbies. Can work won't work.
Tis a shame.
You really are a fecking asshole
My old dear , before she died last May was seriously ill but the NHS simply didn't have space for her so she died at home
We as a family didn't really have a choice in the matter
It's feckin exhausting looking after a loved one and I got ....feck all for it .....no benefits, no hand outs , no scrounging
Now if you or any of the gobshites want to discuss caring , scrounging or anything else pm me and I will see you down the ground
I will not be kicking your arse , I will be educating your ignorance
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Re: Mental Health Amongst The Homeless
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Originally Posted by
Citizen's Nephew
Sorry to hear that Wash.
That's really sad dude , take care