Is chatting up women now forbidden

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Originally Posted by Dr Lecter

Judging by the way he started crying because Croesy fronted him up then I’m guessing it’s balls he’s lacking.

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Did Croesy tell him how Clever he was?.

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Originally Posted by James fox

Did Croesy tell him how Clever he was?.

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I think he offered to meet up for a discussion. Then Henry pretended to have no legs to get out of it and make Croesy look like a nasty man.

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Originally Posted by Dr Lecter

I think he offered to meet up for a discussion. Then Henry pretended to have no legs to get out of it and make Croesy look like a nasty man.

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Wrong again Dr Know F.uck All

I asked him several times where he wanted to meet for this discussion st the Millwall game and he didn’t reply as the vodka had obviously worn off, and his balls had shrunk.

Still waiting to hear what this threat was

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Originally Posted by James fox

Did Croesy tell him how Clever he was?.

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He tried to intimidate me but a quick search and the he looks like Bungle from Rainbow so not in the least bit as threatening as he try’s to make out.

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Originally Posted by TH63

Still waiting to hear what this threat was

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Why? What’s it got to do with you?

Confucius say “no such thing as rape. Woman with skirt up round waist, run faster than man with trousers round ankles”.

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Originally Posted by BlueArmy 86

:hehe:

The Dustin Hoffman allegation doesn't seem criminal from what I've read. Did he deserve a slap, maybe? A formal complaint at the time, possibly. But a public outing 30 years down the line, im not sure.

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At 48 years of age and near the height of his fame and power, he groped a 17 year-old girl. Do you have any daughters?

this reminds me about that thing where a man asks a woman if she will bonk him if he gives her £1 million and she agrees.
Later when they've had a few mor drinks he asks her if she'll do it for $50. She gets all offended and indignant asking him what kind of woman he thinks she is.

the reply: "We've aleady established what you are, now we are just haggling over the price."

I belive that with all these big name stars the initial complainant(s) are usually genuine but the bandwagon jumpers are usually seeing if there will be any money or celebrity in it for them.

It is that that then makes people think it has all got too much like a trial be newspaper, Reporters actively seeking out people to accuse the next big name of something.

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Originally Posted by xsnaggle

this reminds me about that thing where a man asks a woman if she will bonk him if he gives her £1 million and she agrees.
Later when they've had a few mor drinks he asks her if she'll do it for $50. She gets all offended and indignant asking him what kind of woman he thinks she is.

the reply: "We've aleady established what you are, now we are just haggling over the price."

I belive that with all these big name stars the initial complainant(s) are usually genuine but the bandwagon jumpers are usually seeing if there will be any money or celebrity in it for them.

It is that that then makes people think it has all got too much like a trial be newspaper, Reporters actively seeking out people to accuse the next big name of something.

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Sadly this seems likely the case,sorry for all the people who have been abused and nothing will ever happen.

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Originally Posted by J R Hartley

Of course you wouldnt. Youre the forum snowflake. You take huge offence on behalf of anyone and anything.

It must really piss you off being a white, hetrosexual male. Imagine how much more outraged you could be if you were black, transgender, lesbian actress.

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:hehe::hehe::hehe:

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Originally Posted by xsnaggle

this reminds me about that thing where a man asks a woman if she will bonk him if he gives her £1 million and she agrees.
Later when they've had a few mor drinks he asks her if she'll do it for $50. She gets all offended and indignant asking him what kind of woman he thinks she is.

the reply: "We've aleady established what you are, now we are just haggling over the price."

I belive that with all these big name stars the initial complainant(s) are usually genuine but the bandwagon jumpers are usually seeing if there will be any money or celebrity in it for them.

It is that that then makes people think it has all got too much like a trial be newspaper, Reporters actively seeking out people to accuse the next big name of something.

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It's difficult to see how you're reminded of that thing by what's happening since none of the women involved are prostitutes but just looking for or doing their work.

Perhaps there are bandwagon jumpers but just because someone isn't the initial complainant it doesn't mean they're not a victim.

Unless things took a strange turn since I last looked,, it appears that there has been some unfathomably selective 'moderating' in this thread? Harmless banter by some has been removed while insults by some others remain. Can't say I really care, but it is rather curious.
Matt, I see you just posted too - any ideas?

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Originally Posted by Vimto

Unless things took a strange turn since I last looked,, it appears that there has been some unfathomably selective 'moderating' in this thread? Harmless banter by some has been removed while insults by some others remain. Can't say I really care, but it is rather curious.
Matt, I see you just posted too - any ideas?

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Indeed. Apparently it’s ok for Andy Fairweather low to hope that someone drowns in the taff though.

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Originally Posted by WJ99mobile

In light of some of the recent ‘scandals’ it’s now obscene to ask a female out for a drink without them feeling ‘professionally compromised’.

Whilst I can understand women not wanting to get chatted up constantly and probably best to keep personal life and business separate, I do feel we’re going to far on this pursuit. I bet many people on here met their partners through work!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017...dvance-female/

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mine was in work when we met lol

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Originally Posted by Auntie Andy

About time women outed some of these perverts.

If you are not a woman then you wouldn’t understand what we have to put up with on a daily basis.

I’ll give you an example. A coupe of weeks ago I was in a bar in Cardiff. I was stood at the bar getting a drink when some mindless male decided to strike my behind really hard. It really hurt. I couldn’t tell who it was but as you can imagine I was not well pleased.

Now some on here will probably think that’s quite funny but how would you feel if some random guy did that to your wife/girlfriend?

No woman I know minds someone chatting them up, it’s not about that it’s about some men who continually cross the line.

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dam right the perverts have got to be outed
I would be livid if some random guy smacked my mrs bum
there's a line you don't cross

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Originally Posted by TH63

Indeed. Apparently it’s ok for Andy Fairweather low to hope that someone drowns in the taff though.

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You think casually mocking someone’s disability is fair game do you?

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Originally Posted by joecity

Trying to chat someone up is fine. Chatting up a friends daughter is not. Not in my book but then others might be fine with this.

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chatting up a friends daughter is as over the line as you can be
you should be not looking at your friends daughters in that way
friends mothers and sisters (older) are fair game

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Originally Posted by Dr Lecter

With no legs.

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and a stutter lol

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Originally Posted by I.8.POLITICAL.CORRECTNESS

dam right the perverts have got to be outed
I would be livid if some random guy smacked my mrs bum
there's a line you don't cross

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VPL?

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Originally Posted by Henry Hill

You think casually mocking someone’s disability is fair game do you?

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You were mocking my hearing impairment in this thread so get off your high horse.

It's dangerous up there without any legs.

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Originally Posted by Henry Hill

You think casually mocking someone’s disability is fair game do you?

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Not as bad as inventing a disability.

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Originally Posted by Taunton Blue Genie

VPL?

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what does VPL mean Genie ?

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Originally Posted by I.8.POLITICAL.CORRECTNESS

what does VPL mean Genie ?

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If I may, had to Google it myself, Visible Panty Line according to Urban Dictionary.

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Originally Posted by elytillidie

If I may, had to Google it myself, Visible Panty Line according to Urban Dictionary.

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lol ahhhh I get it "that line"
cheers brother :thumbup:

Might as well cancel all the Christmas Parties now. !

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Originally Posted by I.8.POLITICAL.CORRECTNESS

dam right the perverts have got to be outed
I would be livid if some random guy smacked my mrs bum
there's a line you don't cross

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Why do we sexualise the breasts and arse but not the rest of the torso?

Grabbing any part is a nono, but more seems to be made of when men grab the boobs and bum.

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Originally Posted by TISS

Why do we sexualise the breasts and arse but not the rest of the torso?

Grabbing any part is a nono, but more seems to be made of when men grab the boobs and bum.

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maybe its the intimacy of these areas mate I don't know
grabbing a woman anywhere really without her permission is a no no

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Originally Posted by I.8.POLITICAL.CORRECTNESS

maybe its the intimacy of these areas mate I don't know
grabbing a woman anywhere really without her permission is a no no

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It's only intimate because we define it so. It's a case of Dave Allen's nose.

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Originally Posted by TISS

It's only intimate because we define it so. It's a case of Dave Allen's nose.

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Sure.
But the areas that you mentioned are 'intimate' zones. Primary erogenous zones.

Generally not exposed in public. Generally only touched by those given intimate permission or clear enticement to do so. The permission or enticement applies from top to toe. We use our radar and common sense and respect. Some are better at adopting these checks - or reading signs - than others. Evidently.

It may or may not be horsesh1t in principle, but it is a horsesh1t that most of us understand and respect.

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Originally Posted by TISS

It's only intimate because we define it so. It's a case of Dave Allen's nose.

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i work with 95% females they take great delight in winding me up pinching me bum or smacking it , or smacking the top of my hand its not done in any sexual way at all i know this lol
i don't feel uncomfy with it, maybe a tad patronized granted
but i think that's more an age thing than my gender
they are all older than myself
its done if i sworn or been a bit cheeky or told an un pc joke
i wouldn't dream of doing to them (because I'm a gentleman) lol :thumbup:

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Originally Posted by I.8.POLITICAL.CORRECTNESS

i work with 95% females they take great delight in winding me up pinching me bum or smacking it , or smacking the top of my hand its not done in any sexual way at all i know this lol
i don't feel uncomfy with it, maybe a tad patronized granted
but i think that's more an age thing than my gender
they are all older than myself
its done if i sworn or been a bit cheeky or told an un pc joke
i wouldn't dream of doing to them (because I'm a gentleman) lol :thumbup:

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I've worked 'in IT' for many years. Still do. Often in Office environments.
You get used to ..stuff,.. that's all I'll say.
I have never kicked up a fuss! I never initiated nor encouraged.
But sometimes there is banter and enjoyment to be had. Life is for living.
Just gotta use your head, and understand the lines. Some people can't. I've seen that happen too ..

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Originally Posted by Vimto

I've worked 'in IT' for many years. Still do. Often in Office environments.
You get used to ..stuff,.. that's all I'll say.
I have never kicked up a fuss! I never initiated nor encouraged.
But sometimes there is banter and enjoyment to be had. Life is for living.
Just gotta use your head, and understand the lines. Some people can't. I've seen that happen too ..

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that's right mate :thumbup:
they have never gone past that point
infact they have even told my mrs they do it
and obviously women being women lol she told them to carry on cos its nice to see me stuck for words lol

Is it acceptable to shoot your load over the back of a girl in a disco?

Asking for a friend

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Originally Posted by TH63

Is it acceptable to shoot your load over the back of a girl in a disco?

Asking for a friend

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Don't know, I'll have an ask around and give you some feedback later.

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Originally Posted by Nick

Don't know, I'll have an ask around and give you 'some feedback' later.

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:yikes:

Run TH .. Run .. :-)

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Originally Posted by TH63

Is it acceptable to shoot your load over the back of a girl in a disco?

Asking for a friend

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"disco" someone is showing their age lol

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Originally Posted by TH63

Is it acceptable to shoot your load over the back of a girl in a disco?

Asking for a friend

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Only if she's on all fours

Chatting women up is fine.
Harassing and creeping on them with cringe worthy one liners is obviously not.

I realise this advice has probably come too late for the OP.

builders on scaffolding woolf whistling at a pretty girl passing by will soon be up for harassment...

in some shape or form we would all be gulity... bollox if you disagree