Do you like going to the pub ?

[Tuerto]

how is a cinema crap? unless you hate films, which is weird

I like films although i haven't seen one in years. I can't sit down for that long and concentrate, i'm a nightmare. I used to be disruptive in school, the teachers tied me to a chair for four hours because i kept climbing on the roof up the soil stack-i'm better now although it's still there.

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

how is a cinema crap? unless you hate films, which is weird

I love films , I hate the cinema

I hate driving to the cinema , parking, lining up to go in , having a piss before going in , sitting down through all the stupid adverts , having some idiot chatting away close by , film starts , arse goes numb after half an hour , fidgeting around , getting up and going to the toilet again ......

Total nightmare

Would rather watch a film on TV at home , costs feck all and I can have a piss every half an hour , dont have to park , no annoying people chatting away

Its a win win

Its why I hate the theatre too

[Tuerto]

I love films , I hate the cinema

I hate driving to the cinema , parking, lining up to go in , having a piss before going in , sitting down through all the stupid adverts , having some idiot chatting away close by , film starts , arse goes numb after half an hour , fidgeting around , getting up and going to the toilet again ......

Total nightmare

Would rather watch a film on TV at home , costs feck all and I can have a piss every half an hour , dont have to park , no annoying people chatting away

Its a win win

Its why I hate the theatre too

I'm pretty much the same as you, ****ing hate weddings, couldn't stand my own, just wanted to **** off home The problem is, being like that can cause problems, especially in relationships, i can't stand family parties, gatherings etc. If i associate with anyone it's because i know that they're not going to put pressure on me to act a certain way in which i'm uncomfortable with, or they're on the same wave length as me. I get accused of not being able to relax, i have no problem relaxing, it just doesn't involve crap food, crap company, shit music and copious amounts of Alcohol. I took the dog up the garth mountain (not a Euphemism) and i felt great, relaxed and happy (the dog was ****ed) that's how i relax, by keeping busy. A long run is like medicine for me.

Once people understand your character it becomes a whole lot easier. I was sick and tired of going along with things that physically caused me anxiety-not anymore sludge, got to be true to yourself.

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You need to go to the cinema at a different time and arrive just before the film starts

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

I like films although i haven't seen one in years. I can't sit down for that long and concentrate, i'm a nightmare. I used to be disruptive in school, the teachers tied me to a chair for four hours because i kept climbing on the roof up the soil stack-i'm better now although it's still there.

the soil stack is still there ? I fecking hope so

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

I'm pretty much the same as you, ****ing hate weddings, couldn't stand my own, just wanted to **** off home The problem is, being like that can cause problems, especially in relationships, i can't stand family parties, gatherings etc. If i associate with anyone it's because i know that they're not going to put pressure on me to act a certain way in which i'm uncomfortable with, or they're on the same wave length as me. I get accused of not being able to relax, i have no problem relaxing, it just doesn't involve crap food, crap company, shit music and copious amounts of Alcohol. I took the dog up the garth mountain (not a Euphemism) and i felt great, relaxed and happy (the dog was ****ed) that's how i relax, by keeping busy. A long run is like medicine for me.

Once people understand your character it becomes a whole lot easier. I was sick and tired of going along with things that physically caused me anxiety-not anymore sludge, got to be true to yourself.

was going out with a right sort , her parents , social climber types had a Xmas drinks party with all the local great and good , everyone dressed up ff sake for Xmas drinks ? ! I just wore a led zep t shirt and a pair of jeans . All these silly nibbles going round . Talking to the local vicar . My idea of hell .

[splott parker]

was going out with a right sort , her parents , social climber types had a Xmas drinks party with all the local great and good , everyone dressed up ff sake for Xmas drinks ? ! I just wore a led zep t shirt and a pair of jeans . All these silly nibbles going round . Talking to the local vicar . My idea of hell .

She slip through the net Sludge? You still in touch with the vicar?

[J R Hartley]

Is there anything you do like Sludge?

What a misery guts

[Tuerto]

Is there anything you do like Sludge?

What a misery guts

The only time i switch off is when i watch the city.

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

She slip through the net Sludge? You still in touch with the vicar?

went out with her for two years but her parents didn't approve of my social status , they wanted her to marry a lawyer or doctor

I knew it was coming to an end when I was boffing her and thinking of her younger sister

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

I can't smoke weed either. I wish I could. It makes me anxious and paranoid. And super high. Like I'm tripping. I'm so jealous of people that smoke it and are able to be calm. My Mrs smokes it every day. Just a small amount. Sometimes I'm almost tempted to give it a try, but I never do.

I used to smoke loads of weed , all through college years and beyond

Soft Lebanese black was my favourite , if you got hold of good stuff it was very trippy , the poor man's acid as that fella out of the stone roses once called it

But once skunk came around that was it for me , very very strong and linked to psychosis and other serious mental ill health

And skunk can make you very anxious and paranoid

Loads of my mates are into it but i was happy with black soft resin

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

Is there anything you do like Sludge?

What a misery guts

Cardiff City , Fishing , Music , Live Bands , Curry , Walking , Films at home with a cup of tea , Alan Partridge

[SLUDGE FACTORY]

Yup, didn't like it. Went back to the doc and he said that it's just the way i am, and that i'm managing it pretty well. It's when i perceive that i have nothing to do of any value, like sitting down I can do this with you because my brain is active, plus i can get up and do things at will.

amitriptyline is a low dose , non addictive anti anxiety and anti depressant drug that they use for people with chronic pain , sleep problems , my old man was on it for years , he slept like a log on it and was chilled out during the day

[Tuerto]

amitriptyline is a low dose , non addictive anti anxiety and anti depressant drug that they use for people with chronic pain , sleep problems , my old man was on it for years , he slept like a log on it and was chilled out during the day

I've been like it since i was a kid, it gets worse when i'm in positions where i don't feel comfortable or restricted, there aren't many people who i associate with, but if i do then i trust them and respect them, they're usually a bit nuts as well, which helps. I don't want to change myself to much, i just wish i could spend the day doing nothing like so many other people seem to do. An example-I mixed and laid 3 tonne of concrete yesterday in my kitchen floor, cleaned up, had a shower then did a 10 k run, came home, had some food, didn't get to sleep until 3am. Up at 7 this morning, went and did a job in Llandaff, pulled aceiling down and re boarded it, came home, tidied the house, cut the grass and had a go at the windows. That's a pretty standard weekend-i can't keep ****ing still!

[splott parker]

I've been like it since i was a kid, it gets worse when i'm in positions where i don't feel comfortable or restricted, there aren't many people who i associate with, but if i do then i trust them and respect them, they're usually a bit nuts as well, which helps. I don't want to change myself to much, i just wish i could spend the day doing nothing like so many other people seem to do. An example-I mixed and laid 3 tonne of concrete yesterday in my kitchen floor, cleaned up, had a shower then did a 10 k run, came home, had some food, didn't get to sleep until 3am. Up at 7 this morning, went and did a job in Llandaff, pulled aceiling down and re boarded it, came home, tidied the house, cut the grass and had a go at the windows. That's a pretty standard weekend-i can't keep ****ing still!

You looking for a start?:

[Tuerto]

You looking for a start?:

I work for the council now, trust me, i'm in the wrong place. During the covid crisis they stuck me on cleaning duties at a high rise block of flats in north cardiff, i was only supposed to do the basics,lifts, hand rails etc. Anyway, i received two E mails saying that it's the cleanest the block has ever been, all 16 floors-i was in my element

[Wasthere]

Love a decent pub rather then “bars” - too many pubs falling by the wayside nowadays

[goats]

I've been like it since i was a kid, it gets worse when i'm in positions where i don't feel comfortable or restricted, there aren't many people who i associate with, but if i do then i trust them and respect them, they're usually a bit nuts as well, which helps. I don't want to change myself to much, i just wish i could spend the day doing nothing like so many other people seem to do. An example-I mixed and laid 3 tonne of concrete yesterday in my kitchen floor, cleaned up, had a shower then did a 10 k run, came home, had some food, didn't get to sleep until 3am. Up at 7 this morning, went and did a job in Llandaff, pulled aceiling down and re boarded it, came home, tidied the house, cut the grass and had a go at the windows. That's a pretty standard weekend-i can't keep ****ing still!

Putting that energy into positive things as you do is alright. I know a few people like you, struggle to get to sleep is the main issue they have, some drink to knock out, some don’t and just make do on 4/5 hours. Weed tends to have the opposite affect as you get older, it used to make you chill out when young, but freak out when old. Used to dabble but never was a smoker so gave it up 15 years ago....

[Tuerto]

Putting that energy into positive things as you do is alright. I know a few people like you, struggle to get to sleep is the main issue they have, some drink to knock out, some don’t and just make do on 4/5 hours. Weed tends to have the opposite affect as you get older, it used to make you chill out when young, but freak out when old. Used to dabble but never was a smoker so gave it up 15 years ago....

I suppose you're right. It's difficult when my missus wants to do something relaxing or where i have to concentrate for quite a long period. It's hard work and a bit embarrassing at times as i start getting a bit disruptive

When i was in school they'd send me out with the caretaker instead of lessons sometimes, i'd be weeding the flower beds and sweeping the yard, i was a disaster in lessons. I wasn't stupid though, although i'm not saying that i'm the brightest.

[life on mars]

Love pub live ,think its an important social network for a lot of folk , if not abused it can provide comfort to some single life folk looking for company away from their single existence ,which can be lonely .

[Dorcus]

I've been like it since i was a kid, it gets worse when i'm in positions where i don't feel comfortable or restricted, there aren't many people who i associate with, but if i do then i trust them and respect them, they're usually a bit nuts as well, which helps. I don't want to change myself to much, i just wish i could spend the day doing nothing like so many other people seem to do. An example-I mixed and laid 3 tonne of concrete yesterday in my kitchen floor, cleaned up, had a shower then did a 10 k run, came home, had some food, didn't get to sleep until 3am. Up at 7 this morning, went and did a job in Llandaff, pulled aceiling down and re boarded it, came home, tidied the house, cut the grass and had a go at the windows. That's a pretty standard weekend-i can't keep ****ing still!

Bloody hell you must be 7 stone and fit as a frog! I envy you; I'm the complete opposite: I'm an overweight lazy twat and always have been. I procrastinate all the time,and when I'm not doing that I'm putting things off. I wish I could motivate myself to do things but I can always think of reasons not too and I could relax for Wales

[Tuerto]

Bloody hell you must be 7 stone and fit as a frog! I envy you; I'm the complete opposite: I'm an overweight lazy twat and always have been. I procrastinate all the time,and when I'm not doing that I'm putting things off. I wish I could motivate myself to do things but I can always think of reasons not too and I could relax for Wales

Problem is that a lot of the time i don't want to do the things that i do, it's like an addiction, if i don't fill my day up being busy then i feel really bad that i haven't done anything productive, It can also leave me feeling a bit depressed. It's like i don't know what else to do with my spare time. Saturday was a bit extreme. I'm 48 in a few weeks, it's not good sometimes, it's a running joke with the neighbours I've been offered relaxation techniques and all that but i can't sit still long enough to do them.

[Dorcus]

Love a decent pub rather then “bars” - too many pubs falling by the wayside nowadays

Totally agree, you can't beat an old fashioned country pub with real ale

[Dorcus]

Cardiff City , Fishing , Music , Live Bands , Curry , Walking , Films at home with a cup of tea , Alan Partridge

What's happened to the wanking? Don't tell me you've given it up?

[Bobby Dandruff]

bar , etc ?

I dont

Apart from the eye candy most pubs are overpriced

I can't stand them on rugby International day

And in the middle of the week the bar seems to be propped up by boring blokes who have just finished work and are having a pint , or three , before going home or in the case of the really interesting types , spending the whole evening boring the pants off everybody with their life stories or jokes or ideas to bring back hanging

I would rather go and see a band

Only with my mates and if I can sit down, and it isn’t noisy and busy, and ideally with table service.

So no in other words!