Quote Originally Posted by Heathblue View Post
Just slightly changing gears but on topic, I hated then and still do, the expectation that the father is the one supposed to be in control of the discipline, "wait till your father gets home" i think this attitude often caused problems for fathers as they would be the ones who were telling the kids no, next time you do that it's bed early for you etc.
I'm definitely the nice one. Her mother is the bollocking giver.

I remember seeing what you mentioned growing up and still happens now, the mother was always the one you went to when dad said no etc..