How do young people cope?

[splott parker]

Re: How do young people cope?

He would prefer le Pen over Macron as well. And when called an immigrant, his reply indirect reply was that he was superior in comparison to other 'Immigrants'

It’s a sobering thought that there are people still holding his type of views, not only holding them but repeating them on a messageboard. Although, perhaps that’s more preferable, we all know where he stands, it’s certainly not clandestine.

[splott parker]

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First things first, and not relevant one bit to this post - the streams posted by Maurice are so poor you’d think he’s taking commission.

Secondly, on the actual topic of the thread, of which I care little to none what the majority of this ageing, out of touch messageboard thinks - being under 30 is an absolute circus at the moment, unless you have a job in finance or are a tradesmen (from my understanding of their earnings).

Couldn’t give a **** about people during the 1940s, as someone in this thread has brought forward as a counter point, or anything else. There quite literally hasn’t been a worse time to be in your mid to late twenties since the Industrial Revolution.

I quite literally cannot wait for the mass extinction of the current crop of over 70s who have over stayed their welcome. Property market will free up and things will (hopefully) stabilise.

Over 70s I’ve got a year to go!!!!

[Der Kaiser]

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Over 70s I’ve got a year to go!!!!

God speed

[lardy]

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Maybe they ought to do without takeaways...mobile phones....netflix etc etc....we all had pressures then......aka I could not afford a proper bed....I filled my bath with hot water from the kettle because the HW tank was broken and I could not afford to fix it.........get real....

As I said in another thread when you talked about netflix.

Everyone used to get a daily newspaper. It wasn't a luxury, it was the norm. If you want a daily newspaper now, the Sun for example is a quid a pop. Even if you don't buy it on weekends, that's 20 quid a month and double what Netflix costs.

That's just one example of many to show how much more expensive life is today than in your day. We could do bread and milk, electricity, it's all going to be the same.

[lardy]

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You were questioning black people’s haircuts the other week, dear God, you don’t live in France, you live on another planet. You bang on how you struggled, had bugger all but came through and made good and well done to you. This is because there were opportunities to do this in the past, those opportunities have, sadly, vanished for many, many hard working, decent people. You criticise them for attempting to live a normal life, giving their kids things they can barely afford. These folk are doing the best they can, making their homes as comfortable as possible, living as comfortable as possible despite the odds being against them.

You’ve made it quite clear that you sneer at struggling families because it’s all their own fault and the fact that they try and not get left behind is despicable and freeloading. And you’re not keen on those bloody black people having haircuts of their choice!!

One thing I've learned as I've got older is that opportunity is probably a bigger factor in becoming successful than hard work or talent.

In another thread, Maurice said he got a decent job a few weeks after leaving school at 16. This would be unheard of today unless your family was already loaded.

[North Cardiff Blue]

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Nobody is saying the past was rosey. Times were tougher and jobs were on average tougher. The issue today is that the game is far more rigged against you, there isnt a route out, boomers had to scrimp, save and be sensible and they would emerge the other side as a homeowner with comfortable finances and a dignified, hopefully long, retirement.

There are millions of people now whose income and absolute base outgoings are such that this will not be possible for them. They aren't wasting money and they are doing jobs that absolutely need to be done but not being paid what they require to meet basic outgoings and plan for the future.

Good post

I appreciate it is tougher, being of a positive mindset I focus on how youngsters could avoid landing up in that situation, but I realise we are not all the same, and that some people are really struggling. How the hell do we deal with this mess, that is another matter!

[North Cardiff Blue]

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One thing I've learned as I've got older is that opportunity is probably a bigger factor in becoming successful than hard work or talent.

In another thread, Maurice said he got a decent job a few weeks after leaving school at 16. This would be unheard of today unless your family was already loaded.

People have to take those opportunities, we should be our own children's career advisers, if they are going to university look for a course that will at least lead to a well-paid job, otherwise, it's a waste of three years when they could be saving for a deposit for a house and working their way up the jobs ladder.

We should also be financially educating them letting them know that car finance on a fancy car is a quick way to lose a lot money on a depreciating liability that will reduce what they can borrow for a house purchase and that try and avoid any finance other than for a property full stop.

[goats]

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I don’t think all boomers or oldies are doing that well, my in laws aren’t, mid 70’s, sold their house 12 years ago, faffed about and didn’t buy another, spent half the money and now they can’t afford one…..

[lardy]

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People have to take those opportunities, we should be our own children's career advisers, if they are going to university look for a course that will at least lead to a well-paid job, otherwise, it's a waste of three years when they could be saving for a deposit for a house and working their way up the jobs ladder.

We should also be financially educating them letting them know that car finance on a fancy car is a quick way to lose a lot money on a depreciating liability that will reduce what they can borrow for a house purchase and that try and avoid any finance other than for a property full stop.

You think people in their 20s are struggling because they're buying brand new BMWs?

I'm definitely all for more financial education (I certainly had none during school) but that's a bonkers example

[J R Hartley]

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As I said in another thread when you talked about netflix.

Everyone used to get a daily newspaper. It wasn't a luxury, it was the norm. If you want a daily newspaper now, the Sun for example is a quid a pop. Even if you don't buy it on weekends, that's 20 quid a month and double what Netflix costs.

That's just one example of many to show how much more expensive life is today than in your day. We could do bread and milk, electricity, it's all going to be the same.

My Nan and Gransha used to smoke about 80 fags a day between them and they only had his wage coming in to the house. He didnt drink but a lot of working men his age were also down the pub/social club several times a week. Sunday mornings on the piss down the club, home for a roast dinner.

What would the cost of that be these days? More than a Netlfix subscription, an avocado and the odd take-away I know!!!

[J R Hartley]

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I don’t think all boomers or oldies are doing that well, my in laws aren’t, mid 70’s, sold their house 12 years ago, faffed about and didn’t buy another, spent half the money and now they can’t afford one…..

My old man is still working at 71 hes never had so much money. Got his govenrment pension and his dirving job 40 hours a week, no mortgage since hes was 50, him and my mother go on 3/4 holidays abroad every year, twice as many weekends away in this country. They help me and my sister financially with their grandchildren so cant grumble but hes so out of touch with the pressures facing youngsters today, just because it doesnt really effect him, its frightening.

In fact, I cant say for definite but he could be posting on here as Maurice Swan.

[Citizen's Nephew]

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My Nan and Gransha used to smoke about 80 fags a day between them and they only had his wage coming in to the house. He didnt drink but a lot of working men his age were also down the pub/social club several times a week. Sunday mornings on the piss down the club, home for a roast dinner.

What would the cost of that be these days? More than a Netlfix subscription, an avocado and the odd take-away I know!!!

Exactly! It's like this sketch reading this thread.

[J R Hartley]

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Exactly! It's like this sketch reading this thread.

f-ing brilliant sketch

[Citizen's Nephew]

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In fact, I cant say for definite but he could be posting on here as Maurice Swan.

I missed this gem earlier!